i wanted to know if you allow your sub or chastity boy to be on CM? I don't want him to see what I post. I do allow him to write a blog, but I monitor before it is posted. In fact he only sends to me and I post it for him. He is not allowed to see who reads it or responds. I like keeping him in the dark, but enjoy having him write what he is experiencing.
As we met here on CM and @lockit was here long before I was I think it is appropriate that he remains here as his own person. Our dynamic is not one that subjugates his ability for free expression. He is a member of many sites, including mine and fet as well as here and I have no input on what he posts. He has absolute freedom to express himself as I feel without that he would not be true to himself or our relationship. As for seeing what I post, I am presuming that @lockit reads everything I post to help him work out what I am thinking and feeling at any given point. As I have 3 blogs all on different subjects - only one is fetish based, 5 web pages - one of which is political, 2 fet accounts and 5 twitter accounts, it keeps him pretty busy. However I find that it lets him understand me as a person rather than just his Owner. I like to think that by reading my posts it helps him to understand and support our relationship more. I know that by reading his, it gives me a better understanding of him as a person.
I do allow my sissy on here but she knows only too well that any comments she makes should be polite and courteous.
My subbie's not on CM either. Similar reason. He doesn't blog either, though I do like your idea. Where does yours blog?
Just had a look at it. It's ace. I especially like the June 12 entry & the way he described how you have him secured, and all documents, contract, and other evidence locked in the safe. Not read the entire blog yet, but I surely will very soon!
O yes. And at coming on 65 he's likely somewhat over the hill sexually anyway. I may post on the blog too, there have been fairly few replies so it could add a bit. But I need to read it all first!