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    Chastity for older gentlemen

    In my early 70's here. Except for a few month recovery period after prostate surgery a couple years ago, I've been kept locked nearly full-time for the past 5 1/2 years. (Occasional unlockings for hygiene or certain medical appts.) I don't foresee any changes to this. We'll see.
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    Metal Chastity Cage

    I started with the padlock option. As time went on, I found that a smaller cage would suit me better. Mistress likes that that allows for no ability to try to get hard, and I've found that that basically eliminates friction abrasions from trying to get hard. So, with the newer smaller cage I...
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    Metal Chastity Cage

    Male Chastity Now makes a number of high-quality stainless steel cages. Strong but light compared to some metal cages I've tried. I've been locked in MCN's The Contender for 5 years. Also, the customer service is top-notch. Mark, the proprietor, usually responds very quickly to inquiries, is...
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    What has to happen before your key holder allows you to orgasm?

    I have no idea. As far as I know, they're not allowed anymore.
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    How long did it take for her to not feel guilty?

    I cannot imagine that she ever felt guilty about this.
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    Over night again

    Wow! How did that go?
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    Feminine Power

    No. Not about being displayed while I was locked in that dungeon cage. But there were times when I was locked in longer than I wished, or kept chained & working longer than I "enjoyed." But still, not really non-consensual.
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    Feminine Power

    Yes, that happened, too. That was when she had a commercial dungeon. I would sometimes spend the day. If she had clients or guests, I was often put in a heavy duty cage, while wearing a chastity cage. Double caged! Often it was covered but sometimes I was displayed. It was consensual, of course...
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    Who here has problems with authority?

    Rereading my post, I noticed I left out a very important word. I should have typed "Yes, I typically do NOT like being told what to do...." Sheesh!
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    Feminine Power

    Years ago, when Mistress first took me out in public with her, we were in line at a bank ATM. When it was her turn, she snapped her fingers, pointed at the ground, and simply said "Stay!" I didn't dare look around at the other people waiting. While a small thing in the big picture, and much less...
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    Who here has problems with authority?

    Yes, I typically do like being told what to do and can be rather passive-aggressive or a smartass about it. This was especially the case when I was employed (retired now, btw), since it seemed a lot of my supervisors were rather clueless. This makes it all the more amazing to me that Mistress...
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    Longest lockup before reaching 90 days

    I'm on day 80 now without any unlock. Close to 90. Shooting for at least 100. My longest stint is 167. Maybe I should try to break that. Don't have any doctor appts (that would require unlocking) for quite a while, and Mistress wants it unlocked as little as possible.
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    Locked in chastity and deep sleep

    This has been my experience as well. But of course, YMMV.
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    how did you start

    I was introduced to orgasm control/denial and locked chastity (not always simultaneously) by a pro-Domme I visited frequently. It has continued many years with her outside of the pro-setting. I guess this right for me. 😁
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    90 days

    90 days is do-able with the right device. My longest stretch with not even hygiene unlock is 167 days. Done 90 multiple times. Currently at 58 days with no end date set yet. When I'm locked, no erections at all. The cage has no room for one, and it has stopped trying, it seems.