lack of frustration

Maybe you need to go to the doctor to find out why your libido is so low....

 

once you get your device and are locked up with no other recourse im sure the frustration will set in when you are hornier then hell.

 

Some prescription drugs will reduce the libido as a side effect. From time to time I use an anti-depressant called Avanza, of which even a small dose (15mg) will reduce my libido to almost nothing. The maximum dose (45mg) removes the libido completely, though it does leave me feeling as though I could be an extra for One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest.
I thought that I would mention this if, perchance, rebelfan was on a prescription medication that may have a similar side effect.

 

I have had a similar experience - the urge to come kicked off only after about 130 days. Up to that point my brain seemed rewired.

 

Hm,... Well, i first have to ask what "frustration" means in this context (as i am not a native speaker).

I wondered about my lack of frustration as well, but how is it defined?
I definately would have given all for an orgasm after 5 days But i would not call it frustrated. It was excitemend, mixed with the urge to please her, the wish for longer chastity to even please her more... But i never felt frustrated. ...I felt teased and used and horny as hell, but not very sad or frustrated because of it.
Do you mean this?

But i can agree on the other posts here: If you have your device and if you are lockend and she has the keys, it is a much more intense feeling, just because you cant cheat anymore. (I am so new too, had no device, only have it since wednesday).

 

Yes please. It takes it to a new level, at least i am still totally excited about it

 

I am now in my 8th day and while the nightly teasing is really hot, I don't find myself with an urgent need to orgasm. I have been locked up for over 5 months, 24/7, so it isn't the device. Don't get me wrong. I want to come, but I don't have a crashing need to get off. I was unlocked last night when I took my shower and I did get myself hard (easier to clean -- ahem ahem) but I didn't feel the need to cheat. I do get hard more at night (inside my cage), and when my lioness plays with me all I can think about is coming. But the need other times isn't overpowering at all.

 

Before you take Viagra, or any other other products in that area, I suggest that you read the known adverse side effects as listed on the Food and Drug Administration site drugs.com
Among a long list of other things, such drugs are known to cause sudden death and blindness.
I tried both Viagra and Cialis. All that happened to me was a raging headache and what I imagine a menopausal hot flush might feel like for a woman. No erection.
http://www.drugs.com/sfx/viagra-side-effects.html
http://www.drugs.com/sfx/cialis-side-effects.html

 

The device: The same one i have. It is quite heavy, so not for sports. But it is save for me, quite comfortable... like it.

Viagra: I know that it caused a 50 minut-errection (i never took it) as a friend took it. But i would also check the side-effects.
I dont need it, i get an errection like i took viagra from teasing alone

 

nothing wrong with buying a cheap device and seeing if it works. It might work perfect for you. As for viagra, if you have no problems with erections then I see no point in using it.

 

I agree!!

 

I live among 50,o00 men, many who take Viagra. No one has died or had a bad reaction. The worse I get is a slight headache and see things with a blue tinge. The colors, the colors. Reminds me of the 60's. Drug companies are required to list all reported problems by their trial group, whether actually related to the drug or not. If you read all the warnings of a drug, you will not take any. I am particularly sensitive to drugs and often cannot take drugs that I should be taking, like for high blood pressure. My doctor thinks I should put up with the side effects and I think that I rather have a good quality of life than to live a few years longer suffering from side effects.

I do not know one person who has had a problem with Viagra, not that it cannot happen but I would not worry about it. I take it and it is great to get harder than you ever got in a long time and be able to repeat a few times in the next few hours. My wife loves it.

We all have different sex drives. I tend to need a few orgasms a day as that is what I am used to and lived most of my adult lives with two women. Even my wife realized that she could not keep up with me so brought in outside help. Even then I still masturbated. I have friends that are perfectly fine with monthly sex and do not seem to get as horny as I do when I do not cum each day.

I am not trying to be a smart ass or suggest anything, but ask yourself if perhaps you may be bisexual. Nothing wrong with that as that was something my wife discovered after we got married and the reason why she did not want as much sex as I did. She needed hard manly sex and the gentler soft sex of another female to feel complete. My first finance did not know she was gay until she had sex with every guy she met for two years after we broke up, in an attempt to find sexual satisfaction. She finally found it with another woman.

The women who joined my wife and I was married and yet had sex with my wife for about 38 years. Just saying in case this is bothering you. If sexual preference is not an issue, and probably not in your case, then it is just a low sex drive. It can also be from wearing a chastity device. When I wore mine, my penis would go into hiding so that you could barely find it. Then after two weeks, I lost interest in sex and it became increasingly more difficult for my wife to get me hard. I am sure that you will figure it out. Chastity is not for everyone. In fact, its practioners seem to be very small in number compared to other sexual practices.

 

Viagra and similar drugs don't make you hornier, they just improve erection and time some men stay hard. It isn't punishment to take one. Teasing without a drug will create frustration. It does for me. If you are new at this, I've only been locked up full time since February, just wait and see how it plays out. It sounds like you are driven by a lot of longstanding fantasies. You and your partner will figure it out. It will take a lot of time, but it will happen.

 

Your blogging tends to tell a different story.

http://www.malechastityjournal.com/2014/06/29/waiting-isnt-easy/

 

That post was from Mrs. Lion. I don't think it is different though the perspective is hers rather than mine. As of today my interest in getting off has grown very strong. My post for tomorrow discusses this change. This particular wait (12 days) is my longest yet. The only one close was 9 days and it didn't include providing oral pleasure to Mrs. Lion.

You may find that she and I don't see things the same way. We are both growing in our experiences and infrequently agree. Consistency is not very high right now. Emotionally and sexually I find myself changing. She and I are getting a lot of value out of this experience, but we are also struggling a bit too. We are confident we will work things out. We are both committed to continuing my lockup. If you read back over the months you will see that this hasn't been a smooth, fantasy path. We decided to share with each other and people who are interested. The blog itself has turned into a powerful communication tool for us. The great comments we have gotten has also helped us grow.

 

My gf ordered it. She said it is from amazon marketplace (from a german sex-shop), and if i look up the price: we paid 30 €, so i guess more than we would have payed when we ordered it from china. But we wanted it fast.

How heavy: You feel it. But with tight underwear it isn't much of a problem. I had it on for days - the only problem is in the mornings where my penis wants to get an errection. But otherwise it is quite comfortable, even though it is quite tight.

 

I dont find an "edit" button, so i will send another post:

The device works perfect for me. No escape (people in amazon sey otherwise), but comfortable. It takes some time till i get the ring around my balls though

But it will definately depend on your personal anatomy if a device works or not. I like the one i have.

 

@rebelfan , here is a video of a guy putting a device on with a closed ring chastity device. Hope that helps. http://denyingthumper.com/chastity-devices/steelheart-vs-cb6k/

 

I am fairly new to Chastity myself, only 7 months into it. I started off on the honor system and then went to a CB6000s. I find it much easier without my CB6000s. When I wear my CB, the feel of it and how my penis moves in it when I walk, makes me extremely horny. From reading posts it seems that is a desirable feeling for most? I do not like feeling horny to the point of distraction. It consumes my every thought. Last night I could not get to sleep because I was feeling extremely horny. I finally got up, grabbed the emergency key and removed my device. In a few minutes I was asleep. My wife said that she would like me to power through it but if I still felt that I needed to cum by the end of this week, she would let me as we are doing this as a sex game and if it is not fun for me, there is no point in pushing my chastity period.