Is chastity your first kink? If not, what led you to it?

I can't say it is my first kink, but among top 3 for sure.
I was lucky enough to fulfill the other two as well, golden showers and cleaning creampie .

 

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I am not sure what my first fetish or kink was. It started out with just regular porn, and I slowly became curious to all the bondage stuff that would occasionally pop up. I do know one of the first things I was attracted to was latex. I just loved the way it looked on women, and I loved the dehumanizing factor of a full catsuit. From there I found myself more and more imagining myself as the woman in a scene than the man, which is when I realized I have a bit of transgender fantasy, which led to lots of trans and cross dressing porn, which led to me starting to cross dress myself. Chastity sort of evolved out of my transgender fantasies.

 

my first kink was and is bondage.i love the restriction placed on me by ropes,chains and locks.
my chastity is just an extention of that which I can wear in public.
I onl wish I had someone to share it with.

 

My first was topping and bottoming. I was a top for 30 years and owned a 24/7 slave for 10 of them. I always liked to bottom and did so with various play partners over the years. The last ten years or so I have wanted to bottom and haven't topped at all. I've thought about chastity for a long time and tested a ton of devices for a website. However, I didn't want a keyholder, just to see what it is like to use the stuff. The idea of surrendering sexual control has always turned me on. In December I happened to see that Amazon was selling some cheap Chinese devices that looked like they could be worn comfortably. So, I bought a few and tried them out. I found one I liked and asked my wife if she would be my keyholder. She agreed. Since then, I've moved up to a MM Jail Bird and have been locked up since February. We incorporate some BDSM play in our relationship. My wife has become an excellent spanker and great at CBT. She gives me orgasms frequently. It was never my intention to wait months or years to come. She is in control and thank goodness she likes to get me off.

I went through one period (about 2 years) where I was in a triad with two women. They were a lesbian couple who had been together 10 years when we met. I was their first man. We had a great time, but one of the women became jealous and the relationship fell apart.

Since most of my life has been spent as a top and teacher of various topping techniques, it's harder on my wife since if I am not really careful, I can get into top mode. My wife needs time to grow into her role as keyholder and top. I am still a switch. I am monogamous now and have decided to remain a bottom.

 

I was drawn to anal sex as a very young man (early teens), as well as tease/self edging. This progressed via girl friends and relationships where some accepted, others did not...strap on play with light bondage turned into heavy strapon play and extreme T&D which my (eventual) wife enjoyed heavily. She "gushes"/has amazing O's and that, along with lactating tits, became just undeniably hot and sought after by myself (and her)....it is amazing but when a woman cums if her breasts can lactate they actually squirt along with her orgasm. It is extremely hot (atleast to us).

Only in the last year and half did I discover that I liked to be to be caged...I think it (the cage) is a minor manifestation of the larger (true kink to use your definition Max51) need to be edged/on the edge of cumming (but denied). The cage is a physical presence, but to be honest I have for years applied a mental "stop" (cage) to my orgasms (my wife called it amazing self discipline) because I liked the feeling of being on edge. This, mixed with my early teen need to have my ass filled, has led to a wonderfully satisfying mix

 

While married; topping for 25 years with much time as oral servant ..... Then being fingered and strapon play, increasingly large strap on dildos. Separated two years ago; then fisted by Mistress; currently forearm deep fisted, in chastity for Mistress 24/7 with monthly release for getting shaved, fisted, & while being fisted; receiving estim. & being bitten. Finally; being moderately caned and locked back up. Future plans; working up to being footed & breathplay. Mistress is being trained in hypnosis - I am hoping that I can get hypnotized and be under Mistresses further control!