I once heard a comedian say that "in every relationship, one person is always the policeman and one person is always the criminal". He was referring to the fact that one person is always telling the other off. He then said, "If you don't know which one you are, you're the criminal". Or at least I think that's how it went, it was a long time ago, before I new of this lifestyle. Has just come back to me. In case you're wondering, I'm always the policeman!! My handcuffs are at the ready.
My wife is definitely the Policeman, she is always yelling at everyone . Guess that makes me the criminal
I look upon myself more as a Sherlock Holmes or Hercule Poirot, I hope I am not developing egotistical problems.
Re what @jemima says in the UK the practice is called verballing if that is the correct spelling. Lol Xx Wendy
I know with out a doubt that I am the criminal in our relationship, I am often to be found cuffed and bound while the Wife carries out the punishment of my offence.
Well I always seem to be in the wrong - despite many months, nay years, of rehabilitation and corrective activities
I love this thread. (Because I'm a bad bad bad bad boy) In my 20's I was literally the criminal. I needed a someone to tell me no. And she did, and I listened even before she started using a riding crop to tell me. I'd be dead or in jail by now if I hadn't been saved by my dark demanding angel.
Glad you like this thread, Usal. I didn't think I would get this many responses. I'm really enjoying reading everyone's thoughts. Lots of love.