If you go long without an orgasm, does KH want you to go longer?

I prefer the way Mistress Jules does things; I am locked now I could be locked for hours, days or weeks.

I never know when I will be locked and once locked I never know for how long.

She does not set targets or repeat what she has done before

It’s a very simple but affective system I am locked when she wants me locked and unlocked when she decides to unlock me.

I would hate to know I had a target or time to beat.

 

Most sensible @lockit. I think you will find though, that it's usually the male subbie who likes to play target games.

 

i think the natural tendency is to go longer especially if the KH likes what they are seeing, but really its completely up to the KH in most situations, or it should be . I also agree with @lockit , its way more fun not knowing, it keeps you on your toes .

 

my Owner, Mistress Sonia, removed any type of target date after O/our year D/s relationship when She gave me slave tag to wear attached to Her chastity device that is engraved with "DOOMED FOREVER".

slave sort of got the hint when it read that and then obediently clipped it on the lock.

my Owner throughly enjoys the benefits of long term / permanent male chastity.

 

I simply don't see any benefit of having a scheduled release date.

 

I coulx be locked for an hour or i could be be locked alot longer. Its a big thrill not knowing and whatever happens is always a suprise.

 

Well, seems as my wife is thinking along exactly the same lines. And she seems to have gone all the way... By proclaiming permanent denial - now without device. A cock ring and my PA is all I have left... And her - What more to ask for?

 

I get released every 3 or 4 days, just long enough for cleaning, shaving and maybe a little T&D, then locked back up. It has been four weeks of orgasm denial. My KH has no date in mind, only maybe sometime in the spring. I prefer not having a target date, thinking about where I have been, not worried about where I am going.

 

My wife has plans to keep me locked permanently
I will be released 2-3 times a year, only for shaving, and that too under her supervision
We are happily married for 25 years
She says that she now gets bored to take the same cock inside her
Now-a-days she enjoys oral sex by me

 

Welcome in the PD-club ( Permanent denial)
Well. shaving is every second day for me, but it is not done my me, no her, but by the girlfriend Ann...
I shaved myself before chastity and denial, and the only touching I am allowed is when I have to pee... Thats it!

 

When my Wife/Mistress began to get involved with my chastity, we started slow with short releases (7-10 days). Gradually worked up to 30 day lockups. Mistress now sets release dates, but at her discretion and they can change at any time. Part of the thrill of chastity for me is anticipation of release, only to have the date changed. Very frustrating. My last scheduled release was April 1st. Changed again and again. Now She says January 1st to complete a full year of chastity. Hopefully it will happen this time.

 

So far we have only played with lockup times in the 1-4 day range. (Been into three devices in the past year off and on.)
A couple of months ago she took it off to let a red place fade and left it off for two months. I thought she has just lost interest in chastity so I gave it some time just to see. She caught me looking at chastity pics on here and out came the cage. I had it on for 4 days when she let me cum. The next lockup was 5 days. I came yesterday morning and now on day 2 of a six day season. She just left town for three nights so I'm coping with that. So I asked if she is just adding a day to each season (lockup period) and she said "That's the plan". In a way I wish I hadn't figured it out. The mystery of not knowing is mind blowing. I hope she changes her mind at the last minute and tacks on a few more, but I'm not bringing it up. Too bad she's only on the other forum and won't see this.

 

We need a target date because our version of chastity is goal/behavior modification oriented. In our version, my wife's control is not only deciding my chastity period, which is usually two months as a minimum, but also setting the goal I must reach in order to get an orgasm on that target date. If I do not reach the goal, I have another goal set for a new two month period. This can go on indefinitely so I am extremely motivated to reach the goals set for me, which are realistic. It works very well with me because I am goal oriented and like orgasms. This is one example why a known date is used for anyone who wonders why. Our chastity cage, so our rules.

 

If you've pleased her, I'd like to think so.