Another newb looking to be locked down.

Hello all! So I've been lurking here for a little while learning and dreaming of lockdown. I'm a 43yr old married male. My wife and I do engage in freaky stuff from time to time (anal, playing with friends and such.) I'm also a full time panty wearer and also enjoy wearing other lingerie and dressing up for her. I still masterbate regularly like I always have. Lately my wife has been ill and our sex life has fallen off. She still wants it (and so do I), but it seems there's always an obstacle preventing activity. Now she's starting to think I'm not interested even though I try to initiate sex when she seems able. I've been looking at porn on tumblr and male chastity came up. Since I like restraining my cock and tucking it I figured this could provide a nice feel and keep me from rubbing one off without her knowing.

Just got my 1st device in the mail. It's a Chinese - made low budget jailbird type. I got it on amazon. I've tried it on and the fit seems good and it's comfortable to wear with one exception of the bar for the lock needing to be rounded where it contacts my skin above my cock. That will be an easy fix this weekend. So far I have managed to wear it to bed and all day at work the next day. Hoping to talk to her about it this weekend to see if she's interested. Knowing her she will be.

 

So I pitched my suggestion and she said yes. As of 7 am Saturday October 24th I'm on lockdown. We had a family trip this weekend to the Big Easy so masturbation would have never happened anyway, but it was a good opportunity to test the waters for long term wear. No problems with wear after rounding the back of the locking bar. Now we're home and she is in full possession of the keys. Funny thing, as we were driving down she commented on not remembering to bring "her" keys. When I asked which ones she pointed to my crotch. Lol. I got hard in my cage knowing she taking claim of my cock.