The Measure of the Mansion

I wouldn't be able to comment on what she might have meant I think only she could do that (if you didn't understand perhaps you should ask in pm for clarification), but I can share my thoughts on 'the measure of the site.'

My understanding of CM is that it is predominantly a UK minded site (certainly many if not all of it's mods are UK based - and the site too I believe), but with a more or less global user group.

Part of that is that there is a particularly left of centre UK flavour to things. Generally we are supportive of each other, encouraging, interested in other people and their different ways of being, and accepting of difference.

What we don't seem to be (or want to be) is challenging, confrontational, or to point the finger and tell people that they're 'doing it wrong.'

There seems to be a huge amount of petty point scoring that happens in some places, that doesn't happen here, and long may it continue to be that way.

 

Virginia, USA here
And yes, the Owner of the site is in the UK

Many moons ago we used to have a flag we could choose to put on our profiles for whatever country you were in, and it would show under your picture here when you posted something. Not sure if we could get those back but I'll ask. It was a nice feature especially for Me because I like to know where anyone I am chatting with is from. A lot of you I know

 

Sig of course everyone's going to be baffled if you write things like that out of context.
What else can you expect?

 

This question could be asked for any site you visit on the interweb. It's what do you get from the site and what do you contribute to the site? It's up to each individual to reach that consensus. Some sites sell things, some sites are knowledge based and some site are hateful and some sites are just bulls**t. It's all up to users as to what they are looking for. I hope I didn't upset anyone, it's just the way I see it.

 

Rest assured xcitedsissy, I hardly think it likely that anyone could get upset about or make bold statements with reference to, something which has no context.
That would be rather silly.

 

Exactly.

 

I wouldn't worry. AS long as you enjoy partaking in the site. Other peoples' opinions are just that, opinions. Including this even, which is my opinion. Feel free to discount this opinion as I have already argued for. But bear in mind if you discount this opinion, you end up in fact agreeing with it and therefore this may be the only opinion you can never discount.

I think my head has just exploded.

 

I do hope you are not serious about 2. If you are then it is not a glowing self reference.
With regards to 3. Was it one of the con artist Dommes by any chance? If so then the normal course of action is to name and shame, rather than to do this smoke and mirrors obfuscation. I'm in agreement with Mascara Snake here, without context your OP is virtually pointless.

 

I think it's whatever YOU want to make of it!!!!

It is what it is... to you! (and me and every1 else!!)

With the absolute kindest regards.

J.

 

I can be as light as a feather or as serious as cancer, depending on circumstance. You seemed to be asking a fairly serious question, though should we make a note that in general you are not serious?

I only ask as it;s difficult to know how to take someone when they're writing and you can't see their face. I tend to do my best to take this into account when I write here and make it completely obvious.

Southpark memes are not ones that are globally recognised to thanks for the reference.
Now, you starter for 10 points, "serious as cancer" is a musical quote, from where?

 

This topic is useless to try to understand.

Especially if a Female said it, which i doubt. There is NO understanding Them. Scientist and scholars for centuries have tried to understand the Female mind and have failed.

 

A female did say it. And whats more it was said in a private chat.....in confidence....

 

May I ask @Sig Wyrminorb and every one else who should know, exactly why is this thread in the foyer?

I am moving it immediately and please lets all remember that the Foyer is for introductions.
NOT for established members to start threads.

And cheers to all.

 

Sometimes the party ends up in the foyer/hall sometimes in the kitchen it seems.

 

Oh dear the sign has fallen off the oubliette door again....are you ok down there Sig?

 

Give up on the serious as cancer quote then?

Some people might think it was from one of the worst songs ever: (If you want a good belly laugh then do find it and have a listen)

1. Rhythm Is a Dancer - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
   en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rhythm_Is_a_Dancer
   ... contains what one critic called the worst lyric of all time, with its line "I'm as serious as cancer when I say rhythm is a dancer".

But actually it's from JVC Force's - Strong Island.
The lyrics may be the usual bragadocio, but the track is pure hotness.