New to femdom. Would like to find an experienced mentor.

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    Hi,
    I've been vanilla all my life until I met my current partner about 1.5 years ago. We're living together and he's never been in chastity for longer than a month before but after 3-4 months locked up by me he's gone through a very strange and confusing stage - kind of lost his sex drive and was even confused about his identity, even though he definitely is a sub. I don't know anyone else who's living a BDSM female led lifestyle and I'd like to get some support from an experienced domme who likes passing on her knowledge and experience. Thanks!
     
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    It has different effects from male to male. I you need more info. pm me.
     
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    Welcome on board Umi.
    you'll find what you're looking for here :)
    For now private mail is the way to go until we get the keyholders section sorted out in the forums.
    The search facility is great for researching.

    x
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    Welcome from me too. It's great here. Plenty of FDs here only to happy to help out with ideas or whatever you want.
    Bottom line IMO is for you to decide what you want your relationship with him to be and go for it.
    If he's lost his sex drive and is confused this could be just the time to play hardball - but without more info on your situation one can't be certain.
    Meanwhile I absolutely indorse Mistress B and Mascara's comments.

    And BTW I'd not realised the keyholders section was to be being sorted out - so I'm watching this space too!!
     
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