Hi all we all know the story of the little boy who cried wolf so many times that eventually he was ignored and got eaten. Well I have been guilty of this Myself and @mistress Deborah have a very good relationship ultimately I'm her husband but I'm also her sub her slave. . We used to play all the time but after some illness and some comments from our daughter the tree got shook and it reduced. So in a conversation with Mistress I asked why she no longer plugs me or makes me wear a Butt Plug harness. Something that drives me mad and turns me on so much. Her reply was simple "You moaned so much when I did I decided that I couldn't be bothered anymore" I never realised how bad I was. I was very shocked . I know sometimes that I'm a crap slave and a poor husband but here I am losing what makes me tick. . What makes us tick. So a little late to the party but happy new year .. New resolution .. Time to accept what I'm told what I need and get on with it. And no more crying wolf! I'm so sorry Mistress Deborah xx Your sub forever Lucy xx
Never say Never! lol. I think we all make promises when we think we will be missing out on something if we dont? the best thing is to accept that none of us have a pain threshold as big as our fanasy would like us to have and its all about striking a happy medium to make everyone happy.