Lesson learned about planning a surprise weekend for Her

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Surprise weekend getaway for KH - good or bad idea?

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    #1 Matthias, Jan 31, 2015
    I would like to hear if someone else have had any similiar experiences or ideas,

    This year marks our 10th year together and I have booked us a short weekend abroad.

    Although the date is yet several months away have I already made all preparations for it (got Her a day off from work without Her knowing, babysitter for our daughter and travel accomodations).

    A major concern I have noticed is that this activity although I mean nothing but well then it shares quite some features with topping from the bottom, how does one prepare a weekend getaway without influencing the KH too much - I provide the location, transports and the time together - that could be seen by Her as me pressuring Her...
     
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    #2 her knight, Jan 31, 2015
    I don't see it as pressuring her but see it as pampering and worshipping her. My kh loves it when I plan trips or date nights because I am thinking of her and it is time alone to connect on many levels.
     
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    #3 SubVerity, Jan 31, 2015
    It depends if what you have booked for accommodation is a fully equipped dungeon. If so then maybe, just maybe, she might take it as you trying to suggest something. Just an outside chance there. Call it a hunch. ;)

    If, on the other hand, your accommodation is a small cottage on a remote coastline in an area of natural beauty, or if you already live in such a place then in a nice part of a cosmopolitan and cultural city, then she might just take it in the spirit of an attempt at providing the means for a pleasant weekend and nothing more to read into it. Other than obvious walks/shopping and fresh-air/hustle+bustle (delete as appropriate).
     
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    #4 Mistress B, Feb 1, 2015
    Warm sunshine would do for me. :)
     
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    #5 chastemaid, Feb 1, 2015
    i would gladly take you to my apartment in portugal, with Mistress Jules permission of course xx
     
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    #6 Matthias, Feb 3, 2015
    Thank you for the input - I'll make sure to let Her have time and space to do what She wants.
     
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    #7 Wendygirl, Feb 3, 2015
    Ten years you should have some ideas of what she likes.

    As you have already booked not much you can do about location so for most places you are a bit tied to that.

    Not a lot of shops on desert island or beaches in New York!

    Xx Wendy
     
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    #8 C. Roc, Feb 6, 2015
    Well we went away for a special weekend, just before we left, I checked the draw where my Keyholder / wife keeps the key !, It was not there so I smiled and we drive away on our little holiday.
    That night one thing led to another, and then my Keyholder said I could unlock my cage. OK, I had not got the key. She also had looked in the draw and saw no key assumed I had the key.
    So we had a very Fun time with me locked all the time.

    So the moral of the tale is check they have the key with them and Be careful what you wish for as they say !
     
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    #9 Matthias, Feb 6, 2015
    I actually asked Her about it before planning anything - She said She hadn't really thought about unlocking me for that event - personally I have no idea where She keeps the key at home but She carries it with Her to work etc.

    Now I have a destination and the way to get there but the main question what we'll do once there is still open - I'm looking for something that we haven't done before so I was thinking something along the lines of a erotic massage for couples - just an idea.
     
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    #10 MissCharlotte, Feb 9, 2015
    Sounds good, but if she wants to change your ideas, then that has to be ok.

    I would like it as long as I could say no to something without offence.

    You are very kind.
     
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    #11 locked17, Feb 9, 2015
    My KH loves when I plan date night and weekend getaways. Once at our destination then she usually gets to pick what we do, where we eat etc. I spend time pampering her and trying to earn a release.
     
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    #12 manintyres, Feb 10, 2015
    My g/f loves surprise trips and surprise dates.
    When she was my keyholder I arranged 2 surprises for her birthday and she abolutley loved them so much.
    I didn't arrange them in the hope of release from my chastity I arranged them and still arrange little surprises for her (i'm not in chastity any more) I love doing these for her because she is so happy and I love seeing her happy face and I love doing these things for her
     
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