Been locked up now for 2 weeks. My wife loves it. Even ive started helping her in many ways and enjoy it. Only concern she makes me wear it 24/7 even in bed. As I said im new to this. Im really ready begging for release but she says not a chance. Is this fair. As I said im new locked up permanent. She states forever. I love it but need release. Opinions please off males and females.
Yes it is fair!! Be thankful you have her! TODAY do three TOTALLY unexpected things for her to make her day !! Maybe just maybe you will earn release. I found once I totally submitted to my Queen and stopped asking for release my life got so much better ... As it stands right now I have 'earned' four climaxes (for us meaning my Queen has had over 40 since my last one) but I dare not ask or beg for release ..., as my Queen so perfectly puts it... My Shit Belongs to Her! My advice relax accept your fate and learn your place PET
As long as your device isn't causing any pain, blisters, etc., and you're finding pleasure in the experience, I say let it ride and leave it up to her. It takes a tough man to be a tender bitch. How strong are you?
Once you realize that this is all about her and not you things will get so much easier. You will get used to wearing it 24/7. I now do most all house work, make sure she has towels ready for her shower, make the bed, have the coffee maker ready to make her coffee, have dinner ready and much more in addition to my job and do not mind one bit. I also send her daily texts sometimes just to say I love you and more. If I beg for release she normally just says no.
a chase 1 you trusted your wife and now KH enough to let her make the decision for when you will be released, so as long as your device is not causing you any physical harm, then so be it. It is now up to you to earn your release. Your wants and needs are now in your wife's hands. Hopefully it won't be forever, for that is a long time. Communication is very important in this lifestyle in order to make it work for you as a couple. Best of luck.
Earning release is only half the fun. I love it when she teases and torments; the best part is when she decides to add more time to my confinement (for any reason or no reason).
deejay you are correct that earning release is half the fun. My wife(kh) does not tease me much but I am fine with this. She has not yet told me how long before my next release and I try not to ask and have no idea if time is added when I do.
she prob saying forever just teasing, giggle. least you don't has to worry bout being told you have lost one cos you aint gonna have one anyways.
Be honest with yourself (and with your wife). If you are truly uncomfortable with being locked up, and need to be released, you have the right to say so and be released. This is not a betrayal of your relationship with your wife or your commitment to chastity. It is NOT ok for your needs to go unmet. It is extremely important that you have an honest, non-power-dynamic conversation with your keyholder about your needs, her needs, and how they can all be met fairly.
communication communication communication that is the key in any relationship and I cant strain it enough wants and needs for the guy to hell with them im fine so long as I can a drink now and then and ride my bike but it also helps I have more say in my freedom then most in this game not that I care either way as long as my girl is happy I could care less unless it involves sleeping with another guy and no one say crap about its her choice