Hi, I'm a long time reader, but just joined. My Wife and I both enjoy using chastity as a form of play, it turns her on like nothing else. We're not into domination, or sissy play, cuckholding--- we just enjoy the fun of denial and the extra attention I pay her when locked. Being locked also helps with my urge to masturbate frequently. I find being caged somewhat calming, and I becone more attentive. Thanks, Jay.
We have drinks every Friday, afterwards we move to the bedroom where she begins to masturbate while we watch pornography. Then she asks me to put my cage on (it stays on until Monday morning and is removed before I leave for work) so I can pay 100% attention to her, and sometimes we use a double dong. However, this week she's decided I should keep it on (no end time) full time to stop me from masturbating.
Hi Jay and welcome. I also left a lot of energy in my palm for many years before I realized what I was wasting, and asked for help. We play games with it like you do, but underneath that is the commitment I made to save my energy for us, and her commitment to keeping sex alive between us every day. So far so good. Good luck in your journey.
One reason why I've been locked all week was because on Sunday I removed the Cage while I thought she was asleep. I've always considered it a game, or at least thought she never took it very seriously. To my surprise she was rather upset with me. She told me we made a deal to leave it on until morning and if it were uncomfortable I'd need to tough it out. The next night I asked her for a hand job and she said fine, we'll do it later she told me, and when later came she told me again that what I done really upset her. So I dug deep and asked her would it help her if I put the back cage on (unusual for weekdays), she said yes. I wore it on and off for a few nights, and then she said maybe I should wear it for while. Its been on since.
ha ha yup, its a slippery slope. Its all fun and games until she wants it on all the time . Have you two talked about longer lock up times? Or is this all new to you?
We discussed that tonight. No time frame, but it's not going anywhere. She also shoved the key to my cage up my arse, I got it back.
I'm confused. you still have the device on? and she shoved the key up your ass? Is she still upset? lol
She said to me that she will push the key into my arse each Friday before we play, and afterwards I can retrieve it. But there is no guarantee she will unlock my cage. After play my Wife likes to have a small nap, 10 to 15 minutes. She gives me cigarette which I must smoke naked, out the front of the house (cage and porch light on). During that time I'm to retrieve the key; wash it and present it to her. I was relieved when I heard the key "clink" into the bowl last night. Jay.
Well she must be. For the first time ever I removed my holy trainer tube, cleaned it and replaced it. Normally once unlocked I have fun. This is different. She seriously wants it on...!?! Jay.