Chastity was my number one fantasy. I've mastrubated to large amount of chastity themed porn. But when I finally got myself into chastity. I realized that one doesn't get pleasurable feelings and pain when locked. I feel nothing. No pain, no pleasure, no feelings. As though my cock does not exist. Weird because I had always imagined a mixture of pleasure and pain. So is chastity something sexy only for those who are not in chastity?
No, I'm locked and LOVE it. But there are a ton of dynamics, my love for it revolves around my love for my keyholder and my servatude to her, and how wonderfully it has improved our relationship, as well as how it has changed me and allowed me to focus on my physic and femininity. How long have you gone, and do you have a keyholder to control and tease you?
That is precisely the cage is meant for Though the cock is attached to you, it does not belong to you! It's your partner who owns it, uses it and plays with it The day you are caged, your cock is no more yours! So the rest what you have said is not applicable!
No. I'm experimenting on my own. It's kind of a secret so... Maybe that's why I do not understand that dynamic. I however expected some pain if not pleasure. But the whole thing is feeling less. It grows and it shrinks but I feel nothing.
I can't feel anything penis-wise. When I look at CorsetJane's photos I can feel my balls being compressed & feel damp.
Chastity on your own is pointless. The feelings come from the power transference what was yours and so important is no longer yours and no longer important that's where the feelings come from for the person who has your key, your obsession with masturbating and your penis is transferred to the key holder that's what makes it so intense...well for me anyways
Ohhh the control or lack of it in your case is what makes chastity so much fun. Even just having someone tell you when to loc and unlock can be a powerful thing. When you get to the stage of being locked and watching someone walk out the door with the only key, that is a whole different world.
@intofemdom Hi Hunny Welcome to CM Er cart horse egg chicken and few others probably apply. The concept of wanking thinking about being locked up is a touch sereal to say the least. May I put this in some kinda order for you You have a device put it on and lock it properly. Work out how to keep the key and for how long . Lets say 7 full days . You can put a timer on you phone . Put the key in at least a 3 ltr bottle a gallon one full of water if it will fit in your freezer. . This will deter a short term opening. Now stop looking at porn to make it a bit easier on your self . Keep busy for 7 whole days clean tidy help old people what ever but make sure you are not near your key. Suffer the night time stiffys read how you get over them . Unless you are suffering physical damage go the full 7 days . See how you feel write something nice and interesting for us all to read . Do NOT moan windge complain beg plead just suffer unless it looks like you boy bits are definitely suffering damage. Now be good boy and do something use full with your self . Xx Wendy
Very well put wendy. Why post such boring comments. If you don't like chastity, then go somewhere else.
To me this comment is not boring at all, but a rather funny example how people sometimes mix up fantasy and reality. Because if you think about it at least somewhat realistic you should realize quite fast that wearing a CB will result in none penile stimulation at all unless your keyholder unlocks you for some play. But to get a realistic picture about that you should think about how often you have sex and you won't necessarily have to be unlocked eacht time she want's sex with you... So much about reality... But there is another reality as well, because even if you get less penile stimulation wearing a cb kann stimulate you in various other ways. At least if you practice it with a KH. The CB can increase your submissive feelings as it's a reminder of the kind of your relationship as well as it can increase the felt intensity of the teasing and stimulation you still receive. Never figured out why someone would wear a cb just for his own wihout a partner...
Just a snip of your post on poinless. Wouldn't say pointless! And if you got no-one to play with can still get some of the benefits of self locking, could post your keys in a self address envelope or have some self control not unlocking till a time or date. I have a cold bath should get need to unlock to early. I'm far from a long time locked to give my key away I need to trust and I find that hard. Having a KH is a magical thing but don't know if I could go thar far. Bit off track but far from pointless ;(
Some people see chastity as a goal. Not spurting, long periods of denial, and shame - failure attached to having an orgasm. Others see chastity not so much as orgasm denial but orgasm control. In my experience, fewer orgasms make for better ones, and somewhat regular spurting is very connective between M-F in a relationshp -- it is a shared experience set up by the F in control and calling the shots.
I think you need to reduce the length of your cage Try the cage as short as Queen's Keep and you will enjoy the feelings and also the pain!
i love it when i am denied by the chastity locked on as mij misteres uses the remote to punish me if i am bad