Hi all I Would like some advice. I have been locked over 6 months (permanently/ fulltime). I was due release after 6 months and then to be followed by another time period of my keyholder's choosing. I had to be released for an hour for a doctor's appointment (my keyholder came with me to ensure no unauthorised touching of her property during my release) and I was locked again within 5 minutes of getting back home. When I reached my 6 months, I was informed I had my release for the doctors appointment and I was to wait another 3 months before my next release, I argued that I hadn't had any sexual release and ended up with another month added to my sentence. I'm use to long term denial and except for occasional release I know my chastity is a permanent feature in our lifestyle. But my keyholder has no sex drive and I think my sentence is looking at over a year atleast and possibly for the foreseeable future. I know my keyholder would rather I was locked permanently with no release ever. What I am wondering is if you think it is looking like she has made this choice and just is not telling me. It would be nice to have an outsiders view from someone thats "sitting on the fence" so to speak. I admit I would love permanent denial as I hate the come down after I have ejaculated, and it seems the longer I go the bigger the come down, but the thought of never cumming again is worrying. I know it wasn't just a threat as it has been nearly 8 months now and so I have exceeded any point of return to my 6 month release, and last night I was told that my sentence is to be extended (because I was a "sex pest" and tried to enjoy a grope of my keyholder's breast) but she is unsure by how much longer. Am I also wrong to hope I exceed a year and go in permanent chastity? Thanks for any comments.
It sounds to me as if she's already made that choice. It's easy enough if she doesn't need sex. Have you ever thought about getting a Hitachi magic wand?
To be honest, I have not thought of a wand. Would that give me a full or ruined ejaculation if I'm caged? don't want a full one without my keyholder knowing as I feel depressed for days and sometimes weeks after and as such could never keep it hidden, and not sure if my keyholder would like me playing with her property.
After more than eight months, you still worried? Ps. I had the experience of a long time "ruined only"/ Ruined orgasms, still orgasm, it is a completely different experience. You run the risk of "switch" on this experience and will not return "completely chaste." As time goes on you will have less chance of cum - it will be time to play. Just wait a bit and do not try to to cum... while.
Trying or indeed succeeding to cum in your cage is just going to make you soo anoyed and frustrated that I bet it just won't be worth it. I would just forget the whole idea and forget about your boy bits. If nothing else she finds out there will be hell to pay , just not worth the trouble you are going to be in . Xx Wendy
I think that communication is the only way through this. Since you and your partner are in a relationship, you and your partner must get something out of it to make chastity work.