Do any of you boys have a master list of pleasurable treats, delights and surprises for your keyholders? Something you can refer to and select from now and then. (Aside from your improvised daily list) If so then perhaps you might consider sharing it with the others here so that we can get you all on the same page?
Nope I think creative spontaneous actions are a far greater and more personal way to please than working from a list. Something from a list can't really be a surprise, surely?
Mostly everything on such a list should be a new surprise along with a few old favourites that can be repeated now and then. Only a fool or someone with no imagination might pin it to the refrigerator or worse still repeat without editing.
I find calling Her during the day and surprising Her with tickets to either the theatre or the opera goes down very well. Madam then knows that she'll be collected, chauffeured, escorted and treated with the utmost respect and gallantry during the date. She, in turn, gets the chance to dress up and allow herself to be thoroughly spoiled, often when She was least expecting it... Also, sending flowers to Her at the office, for no obvious reason, complete with devoted and grateful message. It leads to considerable jealousy among the other girls, apparently, and always goes down well with Madam. And when I say flowers, I mean flowers, a major bouquet complete with added ferns, etc. A humble and very soft kiss to the nape of the neck at the least likely moments is often very well received, too. There are so many ways to show both desire and respect. The thread is a great idea - I'm sure we'll all learn something from it! Thank you, Ms Amanda.
that's very nice things to do but I havnt got no money to do it. i try my best to make the house nice and clean and do what i can to please Mistress. When She comes home in evening everthing is nice and neat and all the things that shud have been done have been.
on a Sunday we has a lie in and that's the day i can make a nice breakfast and take it up to Mistress bedroom and get back into bed with Her. i make the tray look as nice as i can and if flowers are in the garden i put a pretty one in a little vase and put that on the tray as well to make it look nicer. its harder in the winter cos there aint none flowers but there is nice green leaves on some of the bushes we got and that helps to show i making it as nice as i can. A folded clean white napkin as well makes it look lovely and my cooking is getting a lot better now as well.
A lot of these seem to be wonderfully spontaneous and creative @Ganymede , as I was suggesting, and as would be expected of you - so we are in agreement by the looks of it. No need for a list in the back pocket of your stonewashed jeans I am sure. The desire to nuzzle the nape of her neck doesn't come after looking at a list to be reminded to do it surely? Fools and fridges? I thought the fools would be in the fridge with some yogurts? Tasty treats both. Now you mention lists and fridges, it makes me wonder why folk put lists on fridges - and then where do those who have built in fridges with wooden panels perhaps put their lists? All food for thought. A nice extension of the thread - for those who are fridge orientated anyway.
Hello Jemima, It really looks as though you couldn't be doing more to make your Mistress happy! I'm sure she's deeply gratified by all your thoughtful and devoted efforts. Best wishes, G.
You are absolutely right @Ganymede. After @jemima's great post here, what else does anyone need to learn? Kudos to you jemima! Best post in a long time.
I intended putting a hash-tag on my earleir post - #feeling frivolous But the edit time, and life in general, took over Suppose I should also add #shortedittime
My Keyholder wife always has fresh flowers on the table. I send her at least one text during the day to tell how much I love her and that I appreciate her keeping me locked up. She comes home to dinner on the table. I leave cards and letters for her to find.
Hi J Good heavens no! - Top of my "Master List" of things not to do is to Tweet - I think I would be a twit 2 tweet Now lets not take this thread off subject too much - there's been enough of that already
So it seems that regarding treats for your loved ones, you chaps tend to repeat the same things over together with the odd creative spontaneous action rather than dreaming up new ones and adding them to a list. I noticed that my subbie would watch like a hawk for things that delighted or interested me. I happen to know he was taking note because I secretly and subtly tested my theory on a number of occasions. Whatever I expressed an interest or delight in would generally turn up in some form or other somewhere or some time later. And quite unexpectedly
Hello Ms. Amanda. No, I cannot say I have a "master list", although there are things I do which she has come to expect and she voices disappointment when they do not occur...her morning bowl of oatmeal, keeping her toenail polish and feet perfect, backrubs and footrubs without asking just to mention a few. She likes the little surprises both vanilla and kinky, that show my adoration for her and symbolize my submission to her. Simple, inexpensive gifts like a pair of earings in the shape of a heart with a keyhole in them I see in passing, a naughty text, note or card expressing how unable I am to resist her charms. I always listen to her, looking for hints, unintended or not, about things which might make her heart sing. She is a difficult sort, so close to the vest with her emotions and aspirations so it makes my job difficult. Even a well thougt choice of a ringtone specific to her and us is important. I believe it always needs to be a work in progress with a basic framework maintained. allaboutHer
at this point ithe list would be for myself,so i see no need in having one. now if i ever find a KH that might be a different story.i would use it to stay interesting and not get repetitive.