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    I am glad it worked out for you...:)
     
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    I really love getting put up on all fours on the bed and getting a good crop/paddle/hand spanking. My L has rarely given this to me over the years - she doesn't want to hurt me - but lately her reluctance seems to be fading. We both see the writing on the wall and know that it will be just us soon, and our time together should be spent using our new privacy to really give each other what we each need. For me, that's spanking, dressing up, domination, and sex in all its forms. For her, increasingly, it's the control she has over my sex, and the power she feels from that control. So far so good.
     
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    Thanks, it feels great now knowing whats up. Hopefully I feel the same on sunday when it´s time again. But I will be a really good boi now, I don´t want punishment spanking also then that supposed to be even worse and I´m still quit sore and coulered on my butt. But thinking of it, and writing makes me hard in my cage!
     
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    BlueEyes The lifestyle pumps in my veins...
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    My wife sometimes calls me a pain slut... You seem to be somewhere close to that as well;-)
     
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    Well thats the thing, I´m not a painslut. I can enjoy a playspanking but not this kind of spanking, but I feel I need it to know whos is in charge and this is one way, my cage is another. My wife and I have a wonderfull life together and we love each other very much but this is a way, except of the cage, to know who is in top and who in bottom.
     
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    Funny enough - being exposed to pain does not associate with power over me - only pleasure in another dimension...
     
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    It does for me, if I don´t do as told or should that´s from now equal to hard punishment spanking and I want it like that, we are not the same all people, that´s me and I want it like that, and you want it in your way. And I really hope you are happy with your situation!
     
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    Maybe that's my problem! I always do as told, often even before she has a chance to tell me;-) LOL!
     
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    Don't push your luck;-)
     
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    Friday today and I´m still sore and colored on my butt, two days to my next maintenance spanking and it will almost the same. So for now on I always will have a sore and colored butt, always! And, this is worse, I have had two hits on my list for bad behavior, when it´s five it´s time for punishment spanking! I have to behave now, I don´t want that spanking, not at all! But, if it will happend I sincerely need it of course!
     
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    if you has to have a paddling every week you am always gonna have bruises on your botty.
     
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    Yes, but after some weeks I think I get used to it, not the pain and so, but my butty will respond better to the spanking. But that´s just a guess. But when I get my five marks on my punishment list it will something els, a really hard good spanking some day in the week. I´m told that maintenance spanking and punishment spanking wont be on the same day!
     
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    Corporeal discipline ideally should go hand-in-hand with FLR chastity.
     
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    well it seem a awful lot to me and if I behaves i don't think i shud have one.
     
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    I agree, if I behave no punishment but also agree to SirenSong that corporal punishment in FLR chastity is a must, for me atleast. Now it´s only five hours to my maintenance spanking and my wife has not forget it, she told me just 15 minutes ago with a big smile on her face. And she also told me that I have three hits on my list, two more and it´s time for my first punishment spanking and that will be something els. I guess naked, cane and carpetbeater and that will not be fun at all!!!
     
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    Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek.
     
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    What do you mean by that? I sad with a really hurting butty!
     
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    It was the carpet beater. oooooh.
     
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    The carpetbeater is tuff, really tuff but I think the cane is even worse, 40 hits of it and you are a nice boy who never do that fault again.
     
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    i only ever been cane one time and it hurt that much i never wants it again
     
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    Hello.
    My wife/princess/mistress has been spanking me lately ...
    Mostly over her knee with me in my panties and a button plug in me .. telling me this is what I need because I've been a dirty slut
    having me beg her to stop ..I can't explain the feeling I have becoming so submissive at the time. .
     
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    The cane is not for your pleasure, not at all. It´s just for punishment and it´s supposed to hurt a lot!! lockedup66: I hope she punish you when you have been bad and not for pleasure!
     
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    Yes
    it's mostly when I mis
    behaving or complaining over something. .and yes its not for pleasure believe me! !!!
     
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    So you are where I want to be, and do you think you deserve it? I think I do!
     
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    I probably do
     
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