looking for someone to encourage me...

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    #1 NorskGuy96, May 10, 2015
    I really want to put myself in chastity, but I always "talk" myself out of it (I have little self control, and love orgasm too much), I need someone to encourage me, and convice me that I need this.

    and if you (this hypotetical person, who most likely won't be interested) also would want to be my keyholder when I get my device, that would be splendid.

    thank you for your time, and have a good day/night
     
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    #2 Mistress Jules, May 10, 2015
    Well I would say the first thing to do is get a device. Then take it from there.
     
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    #3 NorskGuy96, May 10, 2015
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    Thank you for your reply Mistress Jules :)
    yeah, that would be a good start, I suppose I'll have to buy one soon, but I still haven't measured myself.
    I'm a complete newbie at chastity XD
     
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    #4 Mistress Jules, May 10, 2015
    Well have a look at some of the threads about devices, they should help you work out proper measurements
     
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    #5 NorskGuy96, May 10, 2015
    I will Mistress.
    I also need to find some Norwegian stores that sell them.
    and dare to buy one of course...

    it's a bit exciting
     
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    #6 GT-CB6000, May 24, 2015
    things really change when you lock it up
     
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    #7 GT-CB6000, May 25, 2015
    It will be a little easier when you actually have a device to lock it up with
     
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    #8 Lialuvit, May 25, 2015
    the first click is interesting ... you will have to adjust things and make sure your not hurting anything... hurt as in real injury. it will be uncomfortable and takes some getting use to .. it is a balance. but once adjustments are made 100% lock up is fun. I bought a plastic cb6s and made some modifications and now once locked no slippage or anything like that.

    still waiting for wife to be more forceful but was locked for 7 days straight. anything more I think I need a custome medal device ... cleanliness issue with the plastic devices ... but great to start out! in my opinion.
     
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    #9 BlueEyes, May 26, 2015
    No need to dare being thrown into the fjord...

    Click links

    DHgate - Cheap but OK for testing various types and for startup
    SteelWorxx - serious stuff- among the best there is - expensive custom made
    Amazon - also cheap - without chinese pin fights...
    Holytrainer - lightweigted anatomic - Stealth

    And many others----
     
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