Your opinions: Just out of politeness the males should at least lock themselves when approaching the females in chat on the site.
I'm no longer allowed to visit the site unless I'm locked, never mind chat. However, proper chat etiquette would dictate that males do not approach the women in chat for any reason, unless given specific permission to do so. Otherwise, you sit on your hands and wait to be contacted first. There are a lot more of us than them, and they don't need us buzzing around like flies when they're probably busy doing other things. If I was a woman and on this site, I'll tell every horny little boi who tried to open a chat with me to **** off.
Personally I think it's up to the members male or female to decide whether they choose to log in here while restrained or not. However, with regard to chat etiquette, you may wish to note that over the years we have lost many Mistresses here through persistent, blatantly rude, disrespectful and unwanted advances by some of the male members via both chat and PM messages.
Hell I'd be happy if when someone sends me a message to just start with a hello, not are you locked or some form there of first thing.
Some of us males literally have no control over when we are locked up! Does that mean that we should stay off the site most of the time?
Whether a male is caged or not, doesn't really bother me in the chatroom but I do prefer politeness either way.