Hi all... I am conducting a chastity workshop in the near future and am wondering if any of you attended a workshop /round table discussion what would be the most important thing or things that you would like to hear or talk about? I just am finishing up the outline to my program and would love some input ☺
What level of participants are you aiming it at? Newbies or experienced? Both? I think quality and correct fit of devices is a big issue as it certainly the basis of a majority of early posts from those just starting in this lifestyle.
It seems to be a mix of experience ..some locked and some not.. I am going to go over fit issues for sure..
I'd say... Him 1) Getting the right device and the right fit. 2) Being patient as your body adjusts to chastity (particularly night time...) 3) Control your neediness. You might be thinking about chastity 24/7 at first. Your KH probably doesn't want to be reminded of it every 5 minutes. 4) Learn to let go. Try to not control things. Learn to trust her and let her take charge. Her 1) Make sure his penis remains healthy, Don't keep him locked if there are health issues. 2) Keep him engaged by acknowledging the fact he is in chastity. The hardest thing for the male is probably to have his chaste state ignored for a long period of time. No need for constant sex/teasing/play. Just a simple word here and there can send him spinning when she is not in the mood for more. 3) Don't hesitate to take charge to a level that fits the relationship. Find some tasks for him to do that works for both of you. Both: Work on good communication. Learn to tell your partner what works and what doesn't in a very direct, honest yet kind way.