The Alpha sub

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  1. GoddessKiana
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    GoddessKiana "Right fucking now", it's Dominate for "please"

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    Alpha subs are an attraction of mine. There's something about a big brute on his knees ready to serve Me. Now that's sexy. Any alpha subs locked as well?
     
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    Surrendered to Bec Property of Bec. SLRN 281-606-394

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    Yep :) That is one aspect of my submission that Bec likes.
     
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    Billus Laconic.

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    I'm a pretty arrogant SOB most of the time, and happy to argue. But sexually I'm very submissive and easily dominated. I don't think this is uncommon.
     
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    Yes
     
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    tiny_tim Proudly Chaste

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    I am Alpha in public but I can be very submissive in private. I know what I am looking for in a relationship and will wait until I find it. It could be called topping from the bottom, but it's more about knowing what will make us BOTH happy.
     
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    I'm an alpha although I'm not a very big man. Little dog but a big bite.
     
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    Neato thread.I was captain of the football team,and director blah blah blah,but when it comes to what I want in the love stakes.I want to be with someone who I can please in any way possible.For me.It's about letting go of my bravado,and letting me listen to my heart.I write romantic odes,and am a musician,so I am emotional most of the time.I just find it rather thrilling letting go and giving my trust implicitly to a Goddess or mistress.
     
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    Mistress prefers a masculine man with a hair on his chest...I am a bit of a nugget as well as you can hit me and I don't move much..lol
    On the outside I am a alpha, but as we work together mistress often likes to let our customers know who is the "boss". Given i am 5'10 and she more than 6 foot and all legs...its easy to believe.

    That said ...some of the things Mistress does to me has my face in a pillow making to much noise..as such she has threatened to gag me:( I dont expect I sound too masculine during those times.

    Yes I am always locked with very rare breaks.
     
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    This pretty much describes me, it contributes to me struggling with chastity though. As its often this trait that makes me unlock .
     
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    I am locked now Mistress!
     
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    I've noticed a lot of submissive men like to think of themselves as A-type personalities; really they aren't though and they're just kidding themselves.
     
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    Guess I'm an alpha male until I've been locked a while." Alpha" becomes "alpha" quite quickly.... then beta and so forth through the Greek alphabet..... ;)
     
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    jemima maid for my Mistress

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    giggle, Mistress has just sayed i'm omega and that's the last letter.
     
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    I have to be the alpha type as I run a business but at home behind closed doors it is a welcome relief for some one else to take charge and I love being submisive :)
     
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    My preference is an Alpha sub.
    In the flesh, not online.
    It's like having a pet lion on a tight leash padding along in front as you go.
    I like to feel protected and I prefer the leash to be subtly perceptible outside of the bedroom.
     
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    I liken it to charades whereby you can become someone,or something else outside of your normal character.I think that's why us Brits love dressing up in pantomime costumes or fancy dress.The reserved Englishmen can then let their true personality come to the fore.I love the pet lion analogy Mascara^Snake :) I'm called Dougal along with Tanya,so that's spot on,on the submissive side for a lot of us girls who like to be submissive,but alpha sub when outside in the vanilla World I think.
     
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    I find that most male subbies are alpha. The great majority that visit pro dommes have stressful jobs and find being bossed about for an hour or two is rather fun. It is, however, a game to them and I couldn't imagine them being chastised for lengthy periods.
    Chastity does have way of reducing that male alpha ego.
     
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    Living Curious Long-term lockee

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    @Tanya B
    As RuPaul said, "You're born naked. The rest is drag." So some might say being alpha or beta or omega is all equally a performance lol.
    I kinda like that thought. It forces any judgement out of the whole idea of gender identity because it's all performance.

    But to the point of the thread, I understand the concept of the alpha sub. Seeing a person who's physically imposing and who we (society) would expect, or identify, to be the epitome of dominating masculinity actually being completely subservient and vulnerable to someone.
    I know my fiancée finds it incredibly attractive to see me make myself vulnerable to her. I think she would probably consider me to be a locked alpha sub.
     
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    Caged Wolf A Wolf, even caged, is still a Wolf.

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    I have been an Alpha in the world for years, with the jobs I've had it was helpful, if not a requirement, to get things done. I am still a force to recon with when at work or out and about unless Mistress Wolf is with me, then i assume my proper position and role. Currently locked since Thursday, and looking at at least another week before Mistress lets me out.
     
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    I have been under my wife's chastity rules and locked for over a year and a half I have not changed at work at all still the boss :) but I have become far more open with my feelings of being submisive to my wife which I never thought I would and that is exciting :)
     
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    Interesting thread. I'm 6'3" tall (190 cm), 250 lbs (113 kg), ex Army Infantry Platoon Sgt. My wife says I have a perpetually pissed off look to me - but I've always looked like that I guess.

    After a week or so being locked up I'm like a big bunny rabbit though.
     
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    I adore the sight of an Alpha male on his knees on my bedroom floor.
     
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