I heard this book mentioned a few times before finally acquiring it., I had usually asked my women to instruct me in eating their pussy, several guided me and said I did a good job, I had my inflated ego ,and was confident not many men were much better. That's all in the past now, I'm reading the book called She comes first, The thinking mans guide to pleasing a woman. I downloaded it in pdf, for free ,all 115 pages. I'm on page 15 and all ready realize what a fool I have been thinking I knew anything about giving good cunnilingus . I have learned so much more in just 15 pages than I ever realized . Anyone reading this book will be a most prized possession to his Mistress indeed. Guys show her your the best. Oh go to kat.cr , then type "she comes first " and download it ,just like you do free movies.
Don't you think that people should get paid to work then? I guess you work for free too. In fact, I reckon you probably work with the idea that you will get paid, but then someone else posts your earnings to a website where anyone else can dip in and help themselves to your money - but you're ok with that, as you don't believe that anything can be owned, not even your earnings. Your review makes me think I'd like to read that book, but I'm happy to pay the £5 it costs to buy 2nd hand, and I might even be happy to pay the £13 cover price that ensures that some income goes to the person that bothered to write the thing.
I had the same thought when i read this post yesterday. Whatever happened to the idea of copyright? I've never downloaded a 'free movie' in my life.
I should mention that the "she always comes first" book I downloaded is in pdf form. No copyright shown on any page. I said it had 115 pages, but that's because it has two pages of the book on each page of the pdf version. It probably has 230 pages in the book form. Probably like the king james version of the bible, no copyright to it , but you pay for the printing and binding etc.
Go to Amazon, look up the book, then click on "Look Inside". Then select "Copyright": SHE COMES FIRST. Copyright © 2004 by Ian Kerner, Ph.D. You can't cough up $12.27 to buy a copy in paperback?
I bought this on Kindle (I agree, why would you want to skip paying for something?) Anyway, I have finished it and I have some thoughts on the book. If you are the sort of guy who does not like giving your female partner oral sex a) shame on you! and b) consider buying this book, If you are the sort of guy who wants to please their female partner and does not know what to do, bravo sir, and consider buying this book. If you were the sort of kid who loved building model airplanes as a kid and read instruction manuals before doing anything, consider buying this book. If you are the sort of guy who loves giving their female partner oral sex and has a pretty high success rate, DO NOT BUY THIS BOOK!!! The author might disagree with me here but as I see it there is one fundamental flaw to this book. It provides you with a prescriptive 'How to lick your woman to orgasm' guide. Do this, for this long, then do this, do this for this long, then do this. It completely ignores the fact that there is a woman on the other end of your tongue. It also forgets that while you are responding to her reactions trying to remember was it the half lick up 15 times or the horizontal swipe 5 times now is impossible. I tried to follow the instructions this gave and after about ten minutes my Wife pushed me away and asked me what the hell was I doing. I have an almost 100% success rate in bringing her to orgasm. Well I did until I read this stupid book. It did provide me with the information that I was doing a lot of things it recommended, sorry, commanded by simple trial and error and years of practice, so I do agree that for a beginner it might be a worthwhile read. Basically the rules are; Don't dive in head first. Get your woman nice and relaxed, cuddle, kiss, have a shower together, rub her neck, spend time together. Before you start actually licking, get comfortable. You are going to be there a while. Don't strain your neck. Don't try to copy porn actor positions, they are more interested in camera angles. Still don't dive in head first. Kiss her thighs, her belly, around her lips, but not her lips. Stay away from her glans!!! Down boy, that thing is sensitive! Many women don't like oral sex because of idiots like you trying to go too fast!!! Lick all of her pussy with long, sensual tongue presses. Learn to feel the ripples of her response. If she responds positively, do that more. If she is lying there wandering what is on the telly and whether a cup of coffee would be nice, do something different. Pay attention to all parts. Speed your licks up, flick with your tongue, press with your tongue. Once she is well and truly interested try introducing a finger to the fun. Not your whole fist dammit! Gently. Place it a few inches in and keep it still. Maybe use the 'come hither' position. If she likes that, try another finger. If she doesn't like that, take it back out again. DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES RAM A FINGER UP HER ASS WITHOUT DISCUSSING IT FIRST! Realise that every rule is individual, and every individual will be different, possibly every time you do this. have fun.