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    Before I went into a chastity device I had no idea that I had at least one erection a night while I was asleep. Now I know that this happens at about 4am every single night. Sometimes I have more, almost hourly, from as early as 2am.

    Luckily I am in a position that interrupted sleep is not an issue but this is not going to continue.

    Do these night time erections ever stop if you carry on wearing a chastity device? I am still very new to this, but I have worn my Holy Trainer now all but two of the nights since I received it 13 days ago, there is no sign of this lessening. I am still waiting for the first night I wake up when my alarm goes off at 06:30

    Tonight was slightly unusual. My first was an hour early at 3am, then I had another an hour later at 5am.
     
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    They eventually stop waking you up, but those first couple weeks are rough. Mine hits around 5:00 or 5:30
     
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    Nocturnal erections are most common, and very much a part of chastity life
    So enjoy them!
    However their intensity will gradually decrease if you stay locked 24/4 for longer duration
    Secondly, when your urinary bladder is full, you often have erection, and it subsides after you pee
    So drinking less water or any liquid at night and peeing before bed may reduce their frequency
     
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    I was able to sleep to the alarm, now I have my four am pee, thankfully I have a device that fits and the pain part is pretty much gone. I just need to ride it out until my body adjusts. (hopefully)
     
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    Sunny makes a great point! Most nocturnal erections are due to the body needing a pee. If you wake up with a chub, get up, go and un-burden your bladder, and go back to bed. Most times by the time you're lying down again you'll be a lot more comfortable!

    Also, don't drink anything before bed, and remember to have a pee last thing. If you keep a glass of water by the bedside, just take a sip rather than glugging.

    Getting older helps too of course! ;)
     
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    Thanks for the advice ref going for a pee to relieve the pressure of the erection. I will definitely try that tomorrow night. I think I was hoping to just roll over and go back to sleep rather than making the long walk down the corridor to the loo, trying not to wake our puppy up!

    @SubVerity Thanks! Hahaha - One of the surprises of becoming chaste at my age is finding out that I do still have night time erections!
     
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    I've often had to get up and run the cold shower hose over my cage to get myself flaccid again, It happens to me around 5am
     
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    Thank you all so much. Three for three! I went to bed early last night and woke up at 23:30, 03:50 and 05:15. I had a pee each time and the erection went immediately each time. This meant that I was able to go back to sleep really quickly the first two times, I haven't bothered this last time as about 7 hours sleep is the best night I've had in a good while.

    I have a new routine.
     
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    I often find also that I get the odd crazy horny night were my cock just wants to be free and have a massive release, once I had to release myself fro the cage it was that intense. It took a bit of explaining to my wife and no I didn't give myself sexual release. Chastity brings on some really intense emotions and urges.
     
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    Absolutely on both counts. Most nights I only have one erection that I know of, usually somewhere an hour +- 4am. Last night was a bit unusual with three, but one night I had at least 5. The emotions side are really beginning to kick in. I took myself off to bed early last night as I was so upset with answering my wife back earlier in the evening. She had told me off, completely legitimately, and I was unable to keep quiet about it. Before chastity I would not have even thought about it.
     
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    Thanks for the advice on going to pee, have been stuck in a CB6000s since Friday last week and have been woken up three times a night at the same times. When the 3:45am erection happened I went to the loo quickly and then slept for the rest of the night. Thanks for the top tip!
     
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    It is these little things that make all of the difference. I have found my understanding of what I am doing has moved considerably since finding this forum.
     
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    My biggest issue is I'll wake up to pretty nasty testicular pain since my penis presses so hard against my ring and cage. Usually, getting up and walking around is enough to solve it.
     
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    What type of device do you wear? I have a Holy Trainer and I find if I slide more of my scrotum skin through the ring it relieves any tightness. Obviously some lubrication is needed.

    I am amazed at how well getting up and having a pee has worked, something so simple could have saved me a lot of grief over the last several weeks. It is as if my body simply turns off the erection as soon as I start to pee.
     
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    Jasmic, I use a HTv2, small cage and 45mm ring. Been thinking of getting a 40mm.
     
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    Hi @Cottus that is interesting as I have the same issue with my HTv2. Every now and then my balls tighten up really hard. What I do is rub some Vaseline around the base of my scrotum and then gently pull some of the skin through the ring. This means more of my scrotum skin is inside the ring, lessening the tightness and associated pain. What I have noticed is over time the ring slides tightening everything up.
     
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    @Jasmic68 I'll take the advice and get some petroleum jelly. I've been using KY so far but it doesn't last like petro jelly.
     
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    For me they never ever subsided, being the experimenter I am I tried various things...these days I take one tablet every two weeks and the dick barely squirms once at night yay....anyway these two threads are relevant to night time erections and ball burn.

    http://chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/dull-pain-and-burning-feeling.15845/#post-138146

    http://chastitymansion.com/forums/i...to-painful-night-erections.14883/#post-128153

    Some will feel the solution is kinda radical but seriously...the only side effect I can feel for me anyway is I get to sleep through with no woody, maybe slightly less stamina when I am out of the cage which is pretty rare but a quarter of a viagra tablet and I am good for hours.

    :)
     
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    Thanks for the links @cogman I swear I searched night erection before starting this thread and didn't find anything helpful.

    I'm not going down the chemical route. My wife kh is a nurse and I know without even asking what the answer would be. She would demand I not sleep in the device before letting me go that way. As for the advice about dealing with the burning it's good to see I discovered part of the answer myself. I am also experiencing some stretching of my scrotal skin and that issue is much less a problem than it was.
     
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    Your body has a valve that closes so you don't pee while you're having sex. Getting up for a pee cause that valve to switch and sends a "stand down" signal to your bits to deflate.

    I use baby oil gel instead of vaseline; if you've got a silicone device, make sure that the lubricant is silicone friendly
     
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    @lock667 That valve is pretty incredible because the speed at which the erection goes is pretty amazing. I think all of the devices should come with simple bits of advice such as Pee to remove erection. Use x type of lubricant. Only hand your key over to someone you utterly trust! And so on.
     
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    Use baby oil to lube up, pee when you have an erection. I'm in and out of cb's for years now but hardly ever wake up because I have painful erection anymore. It'll pass.
     
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    I use a HTv2 and I'm still not 100% sure what is or isn't the best lubrication for the device - hence why I've used water-based lubrication up to this point (safe choice). The obvious downside is it dries up pretty quick, but I'll go with the previous suggestion of petroleum jelly. Thanks for the urination advice - despite the company's promise of no painful nighttime erections, it still happens. This doesn't bother me since I'm a masochist, but health comes first and gratification is a close second.
     
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    I find that the first few nights can be rough. Usually between the third and fifth night I settle into being locked the issue of nighttime attempts for erection subside. As far as lube I use baby oil gel by Johnson & Johnson. For me this works well.
    Hang in there things should get better.
     
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    Thanks for all the advice, folks.
     

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