how do you handle chastity when you go see family?

We are very concerned about the grandkids and, in the past, when the kids jump up on my lap, I quickly became aware that they might well notice my cage, so we simply did not take it along this past weekend. Always my tormenter, Mistress did take along a few toys for those special times. I had to wear a butt plug sometimes and an RC vibe butt plug so that She could torment me during Thanksgiving dinner! On Friday, when I became obviously aroused, She slapped the KTB on me before we went to bed. I had a most miserable evening!

For me, though it was the withdrawal fomr wearing lingerie that I found most troublesome!

 

This thread has actually helped my Mistress decide that I shouldn't wear my Holy Trainer when we go swimming. It isn't the other men in the changing rooms that she has an issue with, in fact them seeing it turned her on wickedly. The issue is the chance that children might see it. Although the device is designed to deny me sexual release it is inherently a sexual object, and as such not really suitable for younger children.

Oh, and @DonnaSue , I haven't shown my Mistress a KTB yet! I am not that brave. But the idea of being teased during Thanksgiving made me chortle!