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    OwnedbyLeeanne Dianne

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    #76 OwnedbyLeeanne, May 19, 2015
    Yes as I have been waxing for a while the epilator is not that bad.
    I don't think I will need to mix up lube in bulk as I am not planning to invite the family over ;-)
    She likes to throw these things out there and I am yet to take her up on many of them....Maybe this time.

    I think I will get her a strap on and see what she does :)

    Dianne
     
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    #77 OwnedbyLeeanne, Jun 2, 2015
    Well I am currently unlocked as my tubing split on my device and I requested it to be removed and I have not put it back on.
    My wife does not seem fussed about it and I am feeling pretty down and am thinking about just giving it all away.
    Our 1 year anniversary of starting is only a few weeks away and I guess that will device what happens.
    I must also say that I am a little disappointed in the Mansion and some things that have happened on this site such as.
    1. The attack on @latexjulie .
    Even though I think she is over the top in some ways it is between her and her partner, maybe this is an example of things that are better left out of the forum. While I did not bother to wade in I was surprised at some of the comments directed at her and wish her all the best.
    2. I am also not a fan of the increasing amount of dick shots and now cream pie pictures that have invaded the Gallery. If I want that I can go to Xhamster.

    So that is my current state and opinions for what they are worth.

    Dianne
     
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    #78 Mascara^Snake, Jun 2, 2015
    Latex Julie is the most creative and amazing being and any attack on her should be merely ignored/disregarded.
    Dianne you did the right thing. To "wade in" to any sort of internet forum attack only serves to exacerbate, prolong and sustain it.
    In my opinion, completely ignoring idiotic worthless comments is by far the best policy, giving the poster a very clear message.
    With regard to the gallery, I never visit unless by request or to deal with some complaint or other.
    Your opinions are worthy.
    I'm sorry you feel down just now.
    I think chastity suits you and I don't think you should leave.
     
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    #79 OwnedbyLeeanne, Jun 2, 2015
    Ms Amanda thank you for your support I do appreciate it. :)

    Dianne
     
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    #80 OwnedbyLeeanne, Jun 2, 2015
    I am so confused.....My wife just said out of the blue "Maybe we should do a new contract, but on my terms."
    My reply was , "It is up to you".

    Women, why cant they be more like men...........

    Dianne
     
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    #81 OwnedbyLeeanne, Jun 13, 2015
    Well it is only one day until the anniversary of our first contract and its expiry.
    My wife said tonight out of the blue, "have you got a new contract for me".
    So I don't know what to think about it all as I have been unlocked for nearly a week now
    and had assumed she was not bothered about continuing as she had not asked me to lock up.

    Dianne.
     
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    #82 OwnedbyLeeanne, Jul 13, 2015
    A month has passed and I am still unlocked and nothing has happened.
    As a result I am now going back to my old ways and things are not looking good.
    I am tempted to chuck it in and give up the idea as it does not seem worth the trouble anymore.
    I am also getting bored with the mansion and things that happen and I am even finding some of the posts
    distressing.
    I would have commented on the post but I didn't want to start a fight over what someone has clearly decided to do.
    Maybe I am just depressed or something but at the moment I just cant be bothered.

    Dianne
     
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    #83 secretdan, Jul 13, 2015
    One of the problems with with Chastity concerning us males is we become a little too selfish sometimes. We think too much about what WE want out of it. I suggest not thinking about the Chastity for now and instead focus on your wife and her needs. Don't be pushy about it, either. Instead of waiting for her to tell you her needs, be observant, listen to her, look for those subtle clues, and then serve her before she even has to say anything. If she truly does love you, and she sees you selflessly serving her, she will find ways to return the favor. This may lead back to Chastity and it may not, but it most definitely will lead to an improved relationship.
     
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    #84 Mistress B, Jul 13, 2015
    @OwnedbyLeeanne you do seem quite depressed. I had problems with jemima and depression. Try taking a few weeks off from chastity, if that's possible. If it continues, do seek medical help. Depression is not something to take lightly.
     
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    #85 steele, Jul 14, 2015
    I believe @secretdan has posted some good advice that has been shared before many times within The Vault. It just shows you are not alone.
     
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    #86 the odd tease, Jul 14, 2015
    I know I sometimes loose my 'verve' and get maudlin about the whole thing. It is part of walking a line along the edge of things and feeling exposed without support. Just try to be open with your feelings with your KH. I do trust it will get better. We've all had these feelings. We wish you the best... :)
     
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    #87 OwnedbyLeeanne, Jul 15, 2015
    Thanks for the kind words of support from you all.
    I am feeling better about things and appreciate the comment from @Mistress B

    Dianne
     
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    #88 OwnedbyLeeanne, Sep 25, 2015
    Well it has been a while since I have been locked and I have just been waintg to see what happened.
    Anyway yetserday my wife got up ealrier than me and then after a few minutes came back into the bedroom and pulled back the covers
    over me and said " I think yu should put that thing back on" and then started to play with my nipples and said "We should get these pierced".
    I just laughed it off and she left.
    When I had my shower I put my cage back on and said nothing, I wore it all day and night and she did not notice.
    This morning she cam in while I was in the shower and said, " Oh you have have put it back on, Good Boy!" and gave me a kiss.
    So we start again and it will be interesting to see what happens next.

    Dianne
     
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    #89 guest 2942, Sep 25, 2015
    @OwnedbyLeeanne , hope it works out for you. Maybe you should suprise her with getting your nipples peirced? I have heard thats painful though.
     
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    #90 OwnedbyLeeanne, Sep 25, 2015
    I had thought of doing that howeevr now you have got me worried. :eek:

    Dianne
     
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    #91 guest 2942, Sep 25, 2015
    @OwnedbyLeeanne , well if it helps it was just hearsay. Ive never had mine done. I have a PA though and I can tell you I hear of so many men afraid of these and yet it was very painless. I even did mine myself, though dont recommend that. Everyone feels pain differently so its up for debate. Either way, any peircing is just a poke.
     
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    #92 OwnedbyLeeanne, Oct 31, 2015
    Well even though I am locked I have been giving a fair bit of back chat to my KH and saying NO to some of her everyday requests.
    The interesting thing is that it has made her bring up that I am her slave etc. more often.
    Yesterday I was lying face down on the bed having a nap and as she was getting ready to go out she came in and had a little grumble about how I was being naughty, then Wack,Wack,Wack,wack on my bottom with her open hand.
    I was surprised at how hard she spanked me considering it was her hand, it left a definite tingle and also made me get a little firmer in my cage.
    So nothing more was said and then this morning as I was drying myself after a shower she cam in and Wack,Wack,Wack,Wack again on my bottom with the same results.
    This time she was laughing as she did it and telling me how bad I had been.

    So this is an interesting turn of events considering how vanilla she as been and only once before has she spanked me and then she cried.

    I will have to now be more respectful to see how it plays out, but maybe the tide has turned.:spank:

    Dianne
     
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    #93 Sig Wyrminorb, Oct 31, 2015
    Yum
     
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    #94 OwnedbyLeeanne, Nov 7, 2015
    Well not a lot has happended due to other reasons although I have now replaced the lock with a new one and come up with what I hope is a better system of keeping the key safe.
    My wife would leave the key lying around and it was a real temptiaon so I purchased a small safe however she then left the combination lying around becuase she could not remember it. I then found out that the safe could be easily opened by just a wack on the top of it and that put back to square one.
    I have just shown her how easy the safe was to break in and then shown her my new system.
    I fitted a new lock and then chopped one key up in front of her, then the one remaing key is placed in a small copper tube and secured with a plastic numbered lock. I then had her hold the tube in front of her and took a pic with her phone so she can record the number.
    That way she can leave the key lying around and I cant use it without breaking the plastic lock.
    The pic can be seen in my gallery.

    Dianne
     
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    #95 Submissive_Michelle, Nov 29, 2015
    Why not try a Kitchen safe it timelocks thats what we use.
     
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    #96 OwnedbyLeeanne, Nov 30, 2015
    The kitchen safe idea would not be any good for us as we need to be able to remove it when we want, not at a particular time.
    If my wife had a better memory then it would be easy however she was forever leaving the key lying around.
    I must also add that I can not be trusted at all and I need to be locked up.

    Dianne
     
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    #97 salonslave, Nov 30, 2015
    That is pretty cool that you are so forthcoming to Leanne that you cannot resist temptation!
    Ss
     
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    #98 sonic chaste, Nov 30, 2015

    Hi owned

    A simple question for you. What was the name of the reading that you gave your wife?'

    Regards

    Sonic chaste .
     
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    #99 OwnedbyLeeanne, Nov 30, 2015

    Well to honest I cant really remember as it was a while ago, however I think it was the first part of the info shown
    on this site. http://malechastitylifestyle.net/
    I don't think I included some of the heavier stuff towards the end as I did not want to overload her with a lot
    all at once.

    Anyway good luck with it all.

    Dianne
     
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    #100 OwnedbyLeeanne, Jan 14, 2016
    Well I was unlocked for a few weeks over Christmas and then self locked just over a week ago, my wife didn't seem bothered about it and even questioned my putting it back on. As a result of her lack of enthusiasm over the past month I started to give her a bit of backchat even though I was locked.
    Then she started complaining that it wasn't working and I wasn't doing what she wanted me to do, to this I replied that it was her doing. Then one morning she realised that the reason I was no longer listening to her was because she was not holding the key, in fact she didn't know where it was. She asked me yesterday where it was and I said in the bathroom under the sink where it had been all along, then this morning she came in after I was getting out of the shower and looked under the sink and removed the key.
    So I wait to see what happens next.

    Dianne
     
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