I use a CB6000 but I've recently found a way to masturbate whilst wearing it. All I do is pull my foreskin through the top and pull it. It takes quite a long time to cum, but it works. I also found that, since I had been in chastity for over a week, the orgasm was quite powerful. I was shocked when, later, because my cock had shrunk post orgasm, it was possible for me to free it from its cage. I was very disappointed because the whole point for me is that it should be impossible to have an orgasm without mistress's permission. Does anyone have any advice on what device I should explore?
I think it isn't the device you need to explore but your own strength of willpower. If you want to be chaste then you need to have stronger reasons to not masturbate than the desire to do so. My Mistress has said if I masturbate then I will have let myself down and gone against what I said I would do and she would no longer trust me. That is more than enough reason for me to not even attempt to escape my device.
I think that's part of the answer. But one of the reasons mistress makes me wear a chastity device is that i'm not to be trusted.
The problem is none of the ball trap devices are that secure unless you have a PA that can be used as part of the locking system. There are some threads about, search for polymorph to see if you can find them to see how others stop themselves being able to pull out.
I'm sorry @dorothy, but you have discovered they two hidden truths about ball trap devices (you can orgasm in them and you can pull out). A PA piercing can solve the latter but may make the former easier to accomplish (though I won't share how). Also, I have been told a PA is less practical with an uncircumcised penis.
@dorothy we both have the same problem and as the others have said there is no fix. In my case I was pulling out of the device a lot and feeling guilty about it. Since my last lockup I decided to really refrain from dong this and also from having an orgasm while locked up ( a vibrator is your enemy). As an example yesterday I had my device removed all day as I had Doctors to see and I went to bed last night unlocked and very horny. My wife was surprised and declined my attempts to have sex with her and this morning when I had a shower I resisted the temptation to orgasm, I then locked myself up again to the surprise of my wife. So as others have said, the only way it will work is with your will power, I love the feeling of being horny more than the feeling I get post orgasm. Good luck. Dianne
It's possible to orgasm in any device, just like it's possible to break into any house. The whole point is deterrence. The more difficult you make it, the less likely you'll put in the effort.
For us, the physical device has become as much symbolic of our relationship and my love and service as it is a physical orgasm preventer. If I were to break that trust by wanking, I would feel so guilty and be compelled to tell Mistress about it and take whatever punishment she may dish out. Frankly, I would be so afraid of Her discontinuing our FLR over it, that I would not dare to violate that trust.
X2 on Donna Sue's post! It is about Mistress's CONTROL.... When Mistress Wolf said "No masturbating, no unauthorized orgasms, etc" She took control, to go against Her orders would be a failure, and she would know just from the change in demeanor... Maybe the only device that could prevent most unauthorized use would be a full belt....
Thanks so much to everyone who responded to this. Chastity training is an amazing and difficult journey and I now realise that I need to work on my willpower and take more pride in my device as a badge of servitude and devotion. I don't know what the future holds but it is both scary and exciting ... but more on that in a moment. Love to all.
That is exactly how My Mistress Wife and I see the device! I think that is one of the reasons she is really happy to continue with me wearing it. It feels amazing knowing that she knows how much I am willing to do for her.
Hi everyone! Thanks for all your replies so far. I came across a device I hadn't seen before, The Enforce Steel Chastity Belt for males. It seems to have a leather casing which completely encloses the genitals and I wonder if anyone has any experience of it. Obviously particularly interested in terms of security and preventing orgasms. Love to all xxx
There is also a solution which does not require piercing and/or circumcision. KTB - Kali Teeth Bracelet - is very secure device. Its another bonus as a CD is that it makes cheating very very painful.
All true. Though, if you want some quick short-term help when the urge to fap rises (hey, we're all human..), cold water to the balls is amazingly effective. Or holding your head under a cold shower, for that matter. Or shopping. Cleaning the apartment. Taking a walk outside. Willpower is one thing and it is important, but just keeping yourself busy is a big help in not, well, being horny all the time. ^^
Hey, Have just been reading through the post, and it strikes me that the solution to the lack of self control seems to be more and heavier gear. Well - some soul searching is also suggested , but mainly gear and restrains are brought forward. In my world, the more gear he presents to me as necessities for his loyalty to the cause - the less I trust him, when he claims that this is all about me and my pleasures. I recommend that you work harder on the mental side of Chastity, and I do hope that your KH's have made it very clear that "the fun" will stop completely if promises are broken. All the house chores You have learn to take on, and the pampering will of course still go on, but You will have no fun, and You will not even be allowed to bring her the hitachi!!! ;-)