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    Hello just wanted to say hello and glad I found this site. Have always had an interest in chastity devices since as long as I could remember/finding it on the internet. Finally own a cheap cage here and have been wearing it for a break in period. Looking to get something more durable for longer term wear.
     
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    Hi
    Welcome to CM
    Plenty to read on devices and loads of people who are very experienced with just about every device made ..

    Xx Wendy
     
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    Hi @hdi pull up a seat, grab a drink and let's chat. This place is good fun if you stick around and get involved. Let us know what device you bought and if you are having issues there are plenty of members with loads of experience who can help.
     
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    Just a cheap metal one from amazon to get started with haven't had too much of a chance to wear it long term. Just worry about it rusting. Looking at getting something that can be wore for longer term like a few days at a time.
     
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    I think you will find most of us start that way. You soon realize that if you are serious about this chastity thing then spending some money on your equipment to encase your equipment is a good way to go.

    I am in the interim stage. I started cheap, realized this was long term and got myself a Holy Trainer. I'm saving up for a custom device next.

    Are you your own keyholder? If you are worried about the device rusting you need to remove it in the shower or use a blow dryer to dry it down.
     
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    holding the keys here myself right now wife has locked it a few times but just working out the wrinkles with it and hope to let her have the keys soon.
     
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    That s good news. I spent about six weeks getting myself sorted in a cage and proving to my wife that I was serious about giving her control. She took control of my keys last November and we haven't looked back.

    Be prepared for a bumpy ride when you do get started. This can get emotional!
     
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    Thank you for the heads up.
     
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    The first 6 months are a head *u*k but it gets better, dont rush her, dont batter her with what you want, let her come to you and take it forward at her pace is my best advice ;-)
     
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    I can completely agree. I'm at the three month point. I will report back in another three months with an update. Will my head still be *u*k*d?
     
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    I don't know about head whatever, but I do know if you accept that she has the key and control it must be at her pace or the road in chastity will be rocky.
     
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    My wife has locked me in chastity but we always lose interest after 3 week can anyone advise us on how you last longer .
     
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