How many people know your locked chastity ?

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    #1 Dave Leonard, Jan 31, 2016
    My wife has a couple of friends that know and always ask my status when she sees them,(always locked) also a close friend of mine found out by accident when i sent a pic of me locked to him and not my wife. opps
     
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    #2 jemima, Jan 31, 2016
    well i don't know a number but loads of folks know i am.
     
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    Cockless Useless no-cock. Permanently locked and denied.

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    #3 Cockless, Jan 31, 2016
    Only couple of old friends who used to be my KH in the past.
    I wouldn't mind if my wife shared this with her best GF, but currently she's not interested.
     
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    #4 Living Curious, Jan 31, 2016
    My best friend knows we're kinky and I've mentioned chastity to him in the past. GC's therapist knows, as well.
     
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    #5 salonslave, Jan 31, 2016
    You cannot unring a bell and people love to share information.
    Chastity play with my wife is, well, intimate.
    I thank her for not sharing.
    Ss
     
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    #6 hdi, Feb 4, 2016
    Just wife and I as far as i know. Doubt she has told anyone.
     
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    #7 locked191, Feb 4, 2016
    Pretty much all of Miss K's girlfriends know I wear a device (as well as some of her male friends)
    I have friends as well that know ...
    All told, I wouldn't be surprised if about a hundred people know about the device and our dynamic.
     
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    #8 spider203, Feb 4, 2016
    WOW that is a lot of people.
     
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    #9 Jblocked, Feb 4, 2016
    Only my wife and she is my KH to the best of my Knowledge
     
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    #10 submissive Bobbie (Bob), Feb 4, 2016
    As for me, I think only my Wife/Key Holder knows I am locked. It would be nice to have a local friend who knew.
     
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    #11 salonslave, Feb 4, 2016
    Us. Period.
    Ss
     
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    #12 DonnaSue, Feb 4, 2016
    My wife/KH and I keep this a secret. But, I have told the salesladies at my lingerie store (and tapped on my cage with a coin through by jeans to demonstrate) and have had several discussions about chastity with them as they are intrigued. They all say that they would like to introduce the idea to their hubbies, but don't know how.
     
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    #13 Ormaz, Feb 6, 2016
    Start a thread and ask people to brainstorm for ideas and suggestions. Proselytizing is key.
     
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    #14 Disciplined Boyfriend, Feb 6, 2016
    Just my Mistress Keyholder / Wife as far as I know.
     
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    #15 olddog, Feb 6, 2016
    Just my wife's best friend because we occasionally have threesomes with her when she visits us. She lives in another State so when she comes, she stays for a week or two. She is kinky though and dominant so she loves it. Plus she loves having my wife to herself.
     
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    #16 TitaniumChastiTi, Feb 6, 2016
    Sorry to appear very naive here but what is "GC's therapist" ?? I dont think we have them in Yorkshire im very intrigued as to what one does ??
    Regard Ti
     
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    #17 Minimistress, Feb 6, 2016
    Just myself and my sub, no need for anyone else to know........ makes it all the more intimate :D
     
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    #18 OnTheEdge, Feb 7, 2016
    Well I get to set the new record then for low numbers: Absolute zero - just me and no one else. The people I meet on this site are the only people I have ever interacted with about chastity.

    There have been a couple of people who I have been tempted to talk to about it. But I don't think I would ever likely to have taken that step. One person could have resulted in a possible relationship and I think after a while she would (probably) have been prepared to play - though not sure it would ever go past a game. The other is a friend who I have a very good platonic relationship with but is also happily married and lives at other side of the country. I've had many conversations with her about bdsm (mostly in the realms of fantasy) and relationship issues from husbands commitment to staying faithful... .

    Oh, and I still see an ex around town sometimes. And I don't remember how but the issue of male chastity did come up as kink. I remember later that day she sent me a picture of a padlock locked to her jean belt loops... But sadly, in that case, neither chastity or the relationship went anywhere.

    I saw here again a few weeks back and was wearing the Seed Pod under my jeans (which when it slips down a bit can be really bulky). The whole conversation I had with her my brain was screaming that she could guess what I was wearing. She's the sort of person I still trust and get on with - but wouldn't entirely trust her with that kind of information. She'd probably enjoy playing power games for a while and mess around with my head. Even though I trust her - I don't want to give her 'that' knowledge/control.

    So yeah, just me. Perhaps that's why I always write so much in posts...
     
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    #19 Minimistress, Feb 7, 2016
    Let it out, no harm in sharing it with us :)
     
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    #21 dclann, Feb 7, 2016
    My Wife and i are very private. We have one mutal friend that knows about our relationship and he is a member here, and lives in the same town. We also have a very open family. Our adult children know and are ok about it. MsL may have told some others that i am not aware of, but i have no one else i've told except the Lady that did my piercing. She asked why a guy my age would get a PA. i was 51 then. My answer was it was for a chastity device and i added we were in a D/s relationship. She simply replied, "cool."
     
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    #22 Jenna Chaste, Feb 7, 2016
    Aside from my random hook ups, nobody knows yet and it really excites me to have this "dirty little secret" :)
     
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    #23 locked191, Feb 9, 2016
    Tis ...she sees no reason to hide anything and neither do I ...
    Or people ask about it, I explain the best I can ..
    Most of Miss K's friends know me as the man toy.
     
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    #24 OnTheEdge, Feb 9, 2016
    Both cool and 'slightly' frightening. Should I ever win over C, something like that could really play mind games in my head.

    For some reason it pushes the right/wrong buttons with me.
     
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    #25 Grunnlock22, Feb 9, 2016
    Everyone over here knows ;)
     
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