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    #1 stehlen, Jul 8, 2016
    Hi all, just wanted to introduce myself to everyone. We are a MWC from the midwest, and I (hubby) am interested in male chastity and possible FLR. Working up my courage to talk with my wife about my interest in this type of lifestyle. We've have experimented and had conversations about other kinks and she's not completely vanilla, but I'm not sure how she would feel about this one since she feels she is more submissive. Anyway, I am trying to learn all that I can before approach her with the idea, so any help is greatly appreciated.
     
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    #2 jemima, Jul 8, 2016
    hello @stehlen and welcome to here.
     
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    #3 stehlen, Jul 8, 2016
    Thanks for the welcome...and I love your pics!
     
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    #4 jemima, Jul 8, 2016
    Thankoo lots. :)
     
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    #5 MistressPhedre, Jul 8, 2016
    welcome!
    in terms of how to approach your wife with the idea, I would suggest focusing on how she will benefit. More orgasms, for example. Or using your caged state to tap into greater interest on your end to help around the house, etc. Obviously you know her better than I, but when you present the idea focusing on how things will improve from her side would probably be a good place to start. Good luck!
     
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    #6 stehlen, Jul 8, 2016

    Thanks for the advice. Would you recommend starting out as being locked for weekends only, or should we just jump in with both feet?
     
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    #7 alisonsmall, Jul 8, 2016
    Hello I'm new here too. A lickel sissy who needs control xxxx
     
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    #8 Mistress B, Jul 9, 2016
    Do please start your own thread and don't disturb others.
     
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    #9 Mascara^Snake, Jul 9, 2016
    Welcome to the Mansion stehlen.
    I'm sure you will find plenty of useful advice here from others who have gone before you.
    My advice to you is that you are best not to stray too far down the chastity road without her.
    And that truth is always the best policy.
     
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    #10 MistressPhedre, Jul 9, 2016
    I tend to take chastity more gently then some ladies on this site, so keep that in mind.

    My advice, if you are new to chastity which it sounds like you are, is to start slowly. Especially if your wife is not completely sure about it. Starting slowly, weekends only for example, is a great way for you to physically get used to the sensation of being locked up and will give your wife a way to adjust to the idea of being your keyholder.

    Remember, your wife can be a keyholder without have to be a Mistress. There are various levels of control and dominance involved. This might help your wife feel more comfortable as your keyholder as you said she has her own submissive tendencies.

    I would also suggest that your wife join Chastity Mansion if she is not already on so that she may chat with other ladies herself. Good luck!!
     
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    #11 stehlen, Jul 10, 2016

    Thanks for the great advice, I will approach this slowly with her. Is there a recommended reading list that I can show her. BTW, I have already purchased "Male Chastity" by Lucy Fairbourne. Any other recommendations for chastity devices or reading would be appreciated.
     
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    #12 stehlen, Jul 10, 2016

    I appreciate the kind words, and will introduce her when time is right.
     
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    #13 AlanThom, Jul 11, 2016
    Welcome.
     
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