Hi, I am scheduled for Vasectomy in Sept, My KH doesn't want to know the date. the issue I have, I am locked and abroad. can anyone tell me how soon the cage can go back on? it should be OK after week i hope, I only worry about nights erections really, as they could cause further harm. any suggestion?
My balls were so swollen that there would be no way to get the cage on for at least a month. Then there is the blood clotting inside that looks and feels like a third ball. Sitting down without cradling them first didn't end for 3 weeks.
My balls were painful for around 3 days, and ached for about 2 weeks afterwards. The incision site (whilst well healed) was sore for a few months afterwards. Ejaculation was also painful for a few months, though after that (possibly due to the open ended technique) I have pretty much zero blue balls when denied - which is a big bonus of the vasectomy (I used to have terrible blue balls before the vasectomy and tease/denial was out of the question). I would recommend laying off the cage for some time and doing the honor method.
If it is a PA non ball type I see no reason it can't go on the day after. I had mine done 14 years ago by someone with a lot of them under there belt. Didn't even feal the shots, tiny cut, butterfly bandage only. Zero swelling, I didn't need to use ice at all. I treated it a's a major surgery though and only got out of bed for the bathroom. Mild pain for 3 days. Waited 2 weeks to orgasm, no pain.
Adding. Stayed in bed for 3 days, then back to work. I know 2 not so bright people that had it done and played sports the nexthe day, lol. There balls were black and blur and massively swollen after that. Take it real easy and it should be no big deal.
Thank you for your response. It is a ball type as we only started chastity. It's a holy trainer v2. The vasectomy was on the table before we got into FLR.
You can try a kali''s teeth if no PA, don't try sleeping with it on though. It's painless flaccid but paralyzingly painful erect.
This look pretty scary. I'm still a newbie and only locked for 7 consecutive days this time. I can get partial erection in the holy trainer v2 and the shaft grows inward. Kali's teeth looks far advanced for me and could cause more damaged than the vasectomy itself but thanks for excellent idea. I will pass it to my KH and see what she is going to say.
The spikes don't break the skin, at least the one's I got from dhgate, there is also a 3d printed one but the max internal diameter on the large is just a smidgen over 1 inch.
Oh, forgot to mention I do fly to KH every 10 days as our current situation requires it. Airport screening puts kali's teeth out of the question. I've Got lucky to get out of this one as it would be a solution to our situation. Unless the 3D is completely from plastic and small brass lock as it is in the holy trainer which is undetectable at the airport.
The 3d one is all plastic, use it with the plastic numbered locks. I wish someone would design a 3d smooth edged tube for pa and non pa for these times. After awhile it just feels weird not to be in some kind of erection suppression device. For medical situation's it doesn't need to be secure as you wouldn't be having sex anyway. For long distance KH the kitchen safe is excellent!
I can tell you that you will want to be out of the cage for quite a while. As said, do as the Dr says and just rest for the first few days. Been a while since I had mine so I don't remember timing exactly. Was 7 days before my first ejaculation. Kind of contrary to the vasectomy to get locked up right away because you need to get things flushed out. In my case, it took twice the time and twice the ejaculations to get the all clear. After taking in second sample to nurse ( very humbling to hand nurse a jar of your squirt,) and not clear, nurse suggested that I needed to be "more active" to get cleared out. I told her if I was anymore active I'd be a teenager. After notes, first of all, about every 3 or 4th day afterward for a while, my nuts would start to ache. Sitting in a hot bath would soothe the discomfort. They told me I would not lose hardly any volume in my ejaculate. I feel that my volume dropped significantly after the vasectomy. My ejaculate tastes much better since having the vasectomy. Wishing you well.
No luck finding the plastic one on the net so far. But thank you for supporting my KH. No gain No pain eh? Or is it the other way?
We are sort of planning the post op with my KH @withallsenses at the moment via messaging service. I'm sure I get plenty ruined ones, as she loves them. She already found out that after "V" the ejaculate taste better. She got so encouraged. By the way she hates it. I can clearly imagine what she's got up her sleeve. Interesting times ahead (as someone mentioned it here on CM) that's for sure.
Weird...we were planning on reversing mine...she wants children and although I love kids, thought that part of my life was over. It costs 3500 dollars to undo, and recovery is a lot worse than vasectomy...ouch. We haven't pulled the trigger on it just yet.
My "V" is due in couple of days, I have asked to be released (as previously agreed by my KH) to be able to shave and clean prior the visit. This was my longest lockup - 10 days in full. I haven't realised but when I took the tube of holy trainer off i have found two red patches where the skin got so thin it caused scuff and redness. I guess the doctor will have an idea on what is going on. I've got to figure out how these patches happen to prevent it from next time. I was trying to keep good hygiene, so not sure what caused it? nighttime erections? swimming too often in swimming pool full of chlorine water? general rubbing? any advice would be helpful. I meant to be locked up straight after shave, but when I show pictures to KH she decided to have a short break.
Last Load. What have you done with your last load full of swimmers just before vasectomy? I have asked my KH and we came up with some options but eventually I have been told to wank in the morning before the surgery, eat it all and provide an evidence of such act. I got hard instantly as we never done anything like that before. Is my wife turning to be dominant? I meant to even show that i am enjoy it all, as i am her slut. I was over the moon.
Already after, Thank you all for the support and help. I will return posting back to my journal in the vault "the vanilla miracle" cheers.