It seems that I have developed Retrograde Ejaculation. This is when your semen enters your bladder. There is a valve that is supposed to cover the entrance to your bladder so that the semen goes to the Urethra. I no longer ejaculate. We noticed that last time I ejaculated and although you still can orgasm, it is not as pleasurable. For me it is no problem since I am not trying to have children.
Why? There are many reasons why this can happen. I do have diabetes and that is a reason given but my diabetes is well under control and at the very bottom of the pre-diabetes ranges. I think this was caused by lots of edging and then clenching to prevent ejaculation. It hurt and burnt a little to stop my semen from ejaculating so I might have done something to affect that.
It normally is nothing to be alarmed about as the semen will come out with your urine which is what I had been noticing and one of the reasons we decided to see if my plumbing was still working after 100 days of abstinence rather than wait a few more months. Many things can cause this such as medication, some medical conditions, etc.. However it is generally a result of something like Prostate surgery more than in indicator of an unknown condition.
I do not know if things will change for me or not but at my age it is not a worry. What does worry me is that I no longer have a libido. I used to be a horny devil and now I have lost all desire for sex. Nothing arouses me visually but direct stimulation still works. Not many of us are locked up for years 24/7 or denied orgasms for months at time. There is also very little real world information of any harm. Not saying this is a direct result of chastity but rather just a warning that it really is something not studied so who knows. I have stated before that if I was a young man again, especially trying to have children, I would not consider chastity play at all. In fact, out of all the fetishes on Fetlife, Chastity was the only one we did not try other than denial for a week or a few days once in a while as a sideshow to our BDSM fetish.
In short, my wee wee is broken so no need for locking up anymore. I have no desire to masturbate and the one time I did, the orgasm was not very satisfying or worth the effort. Keep in mind my age but I have also discontinued medication, one which had a side effect of increasing libido and orgasm intensity due to providing one of the feel good chemicals that are apart of an orgasm. While short term orgasm denial should be OK I will caution about too much edging tot he point that you start to ejaculate but then clench your muscles and valves to stop the flow of semen. In any event, Google retrograde ejaculation on your own and draw your own conclusions. My advice is that if you are single or even married and want to have children sometime, best not to mess around with long time orgasm denial or too much edging. Moderation in all things. Even pegging can be a problem. I had to have surgery due to it and it has had lifelong effects on me that manifested itself in older age. One thing I have learned is that things that we easily shake off in our youth, come back to haunt us in our old age. My football and baseball injuries are now causing me problems. When you stick fat objects into your anus you stretch your sphincter muscle and in old age it does not close tight anymore. You probably have seen pictures of prolapsed sphincters and while not a problem in younger days, it can be a problem when you get older.
My message is to not believe the stuff you see in porn or read from posters who claim to do things that they wish they were doing. Like athletes who abuse their bodies for short term goals, they suffer the effects later in life. Thinking that you will worry about things or not worry at all since old age is so far away, is fine up until you reach it. Then you wish you could go back and change things. Just be careful and use your brains and all will be well. When you sacrifice your well being for a fetish, that is when problems can occur.
Why? There are many reasons why this can happen. I do have diabetes and that is a reason given but my diabetes is well under control and at the very bottom of the pre-diabetes ranges. I think this was caused by lots of edging and then clenching to prevent ejaculation. It hurt and burnt a little to stop my semen from ejaculating so I might have done something to affect that.
It normally is nothing to be alarmed about as the semen will come out with your urine which is what I had been noticing and one of the reasons we decided to see if my plumbing was still working after 100 days of abstinence rather than wait a few more months. Many things can cause this such as medication, some medical conditions, etc.. However it is generally a result of something like Prostate surgery more than in indicator of an unknown condition.
I do not know if things will change for me or not but at my age it is not a worry. What does worry me is that I no longer have a libido. I used to be a horny devil and now I have lost all desire for sex. Nothing arouses me visually but direct stimulation still works. Not many of us are locked up for years 24/7 or denied orgasms for months at time. There is also very little real world information of any harm. Not saying this is a direct result of chastity but rather just a warning that it really is something not studied so who knows. I have stated before that if I was a young man again, especially trying to have children, I would not consider chastity play at all. In fact, out of all the fetishes on Fetlife, Chastity was the only one we did not try other than denial for a week or a few days once in a while as a sideshow to our BDSM fetish.
In short, my wee wee is broken so no need for locking up anymore. I have no desire to masturbate and the one time I did, the orgasm was not very satisfying or worth the effort. Keep in mind my age but I have also discontinued medication, one which had a side effect of increasing libido and orgasm intensity due to providing one of the feel good chemicals that are apart of an orgasm. While short term orgasm denial should be OK I will caution about too much edging tot he point that you start to ejaculate but then clench your muscles and valves to stop the flow of semen. In any event, Google retrograde ejaculation on your own and draw your own conclusions. My advice is that if you are single or even married and want to have children sometime, best not to mess around with long time orgasm denial or too much edging. Moderation in all things. Even pegging can be a problem. I had to have surgery due to it and it has had lifelong effects on me that manifested itself in older age. One thing I have learned is that things that we easily shake off in our youth, come back to haunt us in our old age. My football and baseball injuries are now causing me problems. When you stick fat objects into your anus you stretch your sphincter muscle and in old age it does not close tight anymore. You probably have seen pictures of prolapsed sphincters and while not a problem in younger days, it can be a problem when you get older.
My message is to not believe the stuff you see in porn or read from posters who claim to do things that they wish they were doing. Like athletes who abuse their bodies for short term goals, they suffer the effects later in life. Thinking that you will worry about things or not worry at all since old age is so far away, is fine up until you reach it. Then you wish you could go back and change things. Just be careful and use your brains and all will be well. When you sacrifice your well being for a fetish, that is when problems can occur.
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