discreetly obtaining chastity cage

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    So I've been realy into chastity for a while now, and I'm dying to get my hands on a cage. The problem is that I still live with my parents, and dont feel comfortable getting a cage shipped to my house, in fear that they would discover it. I was hoping this forum could shed light on some options, possibly a chain that might sell them or if the generic sex shop might also carry them. Even designs or ideas for some sort of homemade cage would help. Thanks in advance for your responses.
     
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    what part of the world do you like live in. And it would be helpful what city.
     
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    In the UK, and I expect in many other countries, companies like Amazon and DPD will deliver to a designated 'pick-up-point'. Our local one is the village Post Office. To collect you just need ID and the reference code you are sent by email. All they know is the parcel came from Amazon.
     
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    I had mine delivered to an Amazon Locker. They send you an email with a barcode that opens the locker.

    Couldn't have been easier.
     
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    Beat me to it - there are plenty of companies which deliver to local stores nowadays plus Amazon stock a ton of cheap (thirdparty sold devices) if you set the settings to "Health and Personal Care" when you search.

    I have personally ordered a number of devices to shared houses and never been exposed.
     
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    Good evening
    This is a little bit of a tangent but as well of where to buy one I really need to know how to pick the right one for me, as you have bought several I was hoping you could tell me what I should be considering.
    Thanking you in advance.


    Regards Puppy
     
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    Hi @hampshirepuppy unfortunately having to buy several devices is not always a good sign - as it hasn't meant you've found one that fitted. (After all, if you did, you'd be locked up, right ...)

    From my experience though a cheap first time device is likely to be a "ball trap" style device where a ring goes behind your testicles to hold everything in place. Unless you are good measuring yourself look for a cheap stainless steel device (to keep it clean and not smelly) with multiple rings. Use a ring which when you are wearing it you can just stick the tip of one finger in so there is a little wiggle room. (If you can fit two fingers in look at the next size down).

    As to the cage size go as small as you possibly can. It's must more comfortable when you start wearing the device for long periods of time and especially overnight. You want to measure yourself flaccid and go ever so slightly smaller than you measured to keep everything snug. This will both help the device stay fitted to you and help minimise painful "morning wood" experiences as you wake up.

    Oh and a lot of the cheap devices will give you the option for anti-off and/or 'punishment' pins. Think carefully before using these as once there in and the key is hidden you might not be able to take them off. They may seem comfortable now... ... ... I do use them, but have only found one style that works as it helped my device stay on and are withdrawn to a very low setting. I was not so happy about them this morning though when any they quickly discouraged a regular attempt at an erection with an uncomfortable pricking sensation. Not torture but not something I want to repeat and certainly not pleasant.

    Hope that helps. My main advice would be to make full use of the novice and newbies boards and interact with people there. People who frequent this section will expect you to have questions... .

    Hope you find the device you are looking for.
     
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    Hi Gryffin
    Many thank for the helpful advice, I am hoping to make a decision this evening so iIcan start over the easter weekend for my first try

    kind regards Puppy
     
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    Bonus point: Don't be too ambitious on your first few tries. Allow your body to get used to wearing the cage and only let go of access to your key when you are sure you are comfortable wearing long term (and/or have sorted out a system for emergency keys).
     
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    Thanks again, i do not think I can have too much advice with this
     
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    This was exactly the kind of thing I was looking for, thanks for the help!
     
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    go into a sex shop and buy one. I guarantee the assiistant will not be fazed in the slightest.
     
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    I have ordered one from Amazon but missed the next day delievery so it will not arrive at the Amazon locker until tomorrow but it will be in time for the weekend :)
     
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