Long story short me and the wife played with FLR and chastity for some time back in 2010 and slowly kinda dropped it after a bit. Fast forward to 4 years ago 2014, i had a stroke which put me on disability. Unfortunately a side effect was ED. Wife had to get a job to support us and bit by bit took her place as head of her home. Difference was now it is reality and no longer a game. i now do the cooking and cleaning in her home while she is the main bread winner. The stroke left me with ED so a device is no longer needed since i cannot get hard any longer but she still uses it when she wants to or as punishment. For roughly a year we would orally please one another and one day she informed me she had met a man and wanted to sleep with him. Was hard to deal with but deal with it i did. Now she freely dates at will, sometimes telling me of her escapades other times telling me is none of my business.
A very touching story. I hope you are able to eroticize your situation to help make it more bearable. I admire you for your courage. I am NOT in any way expert here, but I do believe you have a responsibility to your wife. She is clearly working hard as well. Not only to "win the bread", but also to keep the marriage going. This was just as unplanned for her as it was for you. Therefore, I'd embrace being her cuckold and to make sure you show her your support as such. She might feel guilty about dating. Make sure she ought not feel that way. Hope that helps.
i do my best to see she is happy. still uneasy when she is getting ready for a date and asks me to answer the door and make him comfortable. hard to have idle chat with some guy about totake your wife on a date and likely fuck her. i deal with it tho
I am glad you are doing your best to make her happy. That's what you should do. You are a brave man. I am sure it can't be easy. Please.....PLEASE be sure to be an active member on this site. A lot of men (me included) either are or fantasize about being a cuckold. So your insight can be most valuable.
thanks, we played femdom games before but out of necessity she had to take charge and things are relatively smooth in her home
I'd be interested to know how you feel about it? It doesn't sound as if you were given any say in the matter, which can be really horny if you like being a cuckold, but not good if you don't actually like or enjoy what is happening.
bothereed me the first few times to be honest but after getting used to it and meeting some of her guys am ok with it now.
To be honest when we played with femdom before it was a fantasy and always thought it would remain that way. But since i am no longer capable of her satisfaction it gives me a great feeling to see her getting sexual satisfaction. i do miss having a hardon tho and stuffingher
I fully understand that you miss being able to do that yourself. Have you considered a strap-on? Nothing wrong with what you're doing, by the way, but I'm not sure this is good for you long-term.
actually the more Dom she becomes the more submissive for me. we are finding our bond is growing stronger with time. i am still allowed to go down on her fairly often to worship her pussy so there is that. kinda like her out of her shell and in charge to tell the truth
That's great. Cuckolding in that way it has happened for you is definitely a very dominant act by your wife. You are still able to enjoy the submission it brings. Good for you.
Also, welcome to CM and I hope you get lots of fun from it. You have a very interesting dynamic and I'd love to hear more about it. Please keep posting.