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    Hello,

    I am new here. I have long fantasized about being locked away in chastity and I am here to do some reading in order to be better prepared for discussing this fantasy with my wife.

    I unsuccessfully asked for chastity in the past and I have realized the error in my approach. So, I am here to put together a well thought out argument in favor of chastity. I will probably ask a lot of questions about things I need clarity on or answers more specific to my situation.

    I look forward to interacting with you and absorbing your knowledge like a sponge absorbs water. If you are in the medical field I would really like to talk to you, bonus points if you are a mental healthcare professional :)

    - Chris
     
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    Welcome aboard
     
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    Welcome to the community @inquiringminds You’re sure to find the kind of information you’re looking for here. Enjoy.
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you enjoy being part of it.
     
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    hello and welcome. You're in a common position so I'm sure you'll get lots of advice and support.
     
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    What was the error in your approach?
     
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    Welcome here, got a Bachelor in psycho if it helps but you should find many good advice around form all the members.
     
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    Hi there Chris!

    WELCOME!!!

    Hopefully the saying ask and you shall receive (or something close to that!! ;):)) holds true for you!

    Kindest regards

    J.
     
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    hello @inquiringminds and welcome to here and I hope that you find out what you want to know.
     
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    Welcome to the forum.
    Lots of good information here. Hopefully you will find what you need.
     
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    Hello and welcome. I am new to this lifestyle with my husband. We have had some long conversations about chastity and after listening to him of his hopes and desires we have started doing it and we are really enjoying it. We have a lot of love and trust with one another. Take your time and good luck!
     
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    Thank you all for the warm welcome!

    The error of my approach is that it was 1 sided. I made the conversation almost completely about how it would benefit me. I was not as mature then and I was far more selfish than I am now. My wife was a biology and chemistry major and rather than approaching her with a well thought out argument in favor of chastity, I just said she would get more orgasms. I was young and incredibly stupid and I fear that I may have put her off for life. So, I am here to learn all that I can in hopes that by approaching her in a way that appeals to her, maybe I can turn the tides in my favor.
     
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