Hi there, me and my girlfriend are in a long term relationship and have always been reasonably kinky in the bedroom together. She likes dominating me and I love being submissive towards her. We've experimented with fairly vanilla toys before like handcuffs and blindfolds but I'm wanting to take things to another level by introducing her to chastity.
To begin with I'm wanting to just have fun with it and take it casually, I'm not going into this wanting her to lock me up for months or even weeks at a time (at least not straight away
) and I think the best way of going about this is to just go slow and take our time.
The thing is, what in your opinion and experience is the best way to actually approach the idea of chastity initially? The way I've planted the seed is that I've suggested we should get each other kinky Christmas presents this year and she seemed to like the idea, so I've actually purchased a beginner chastity device and a book about male chastity called Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders by Lucy Fairbourne. I've read that it's aimed at complete newbies to chastity and it's presented in a non-threatening way, so I figured that might be a good place to start? But what do you think?
Do you have any other suggestions about how to approach chastity in this type of situation?
To begin with I'm wanting to just have fun with it and take it casually, I'm not going into this wanting her to lock me up for months or even weeks at a time (at least not straight away
The thing is, what in your opinion and experience is the best way to actually approach the idea of chastity initially? The way I've planted the seed is that I've suggested we should get each other kinky Christmas presents this year and she seemed to like the idea, so I've actually purchased a beginner chastity device and a book about male chastity called Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders by Lucy Fairbourne. I've read that it's aimed at complete newbies to chastity and it's presented in a non-threatening way, so I figured that might be a good place to start? But what do you think?
Do you have any other suggestions about how to approach chastity in this type of situation?