Earned reward for self lock milestone?

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    #1 CuriousTurtle, Feb 20, 2022
    Hello everyone,

    I am self locking so obviously i don't have a keyholder. Over the past few months i have locked myself up for longer durations. As of today I've now made it a full week locked up. No playing, not touching, no release except for the 30 min shower midway to do a deep cage clean. So here's my question and where I'm looking for input. Do I reward myself for this first milestone? I don't know if the first full week gets rewarded or what. Looking forward to her all of your thoughts or suggestions.

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    #2 jemima, Feb 20, 2022
    hello @CuriousTurtle well i spose you cud make mess after you done a week for first time but it migt make you all down and sad after cos it dose. and then you has to start all again. it better realy just have a bit of a fiddle with your willy if you want as a reward for be good and not make mess.
     
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    #3 chst_ss, Feb 20, 2022
    Your best reward should be 2 weeks locked
     
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    #4 Armitage, Feb 20, 2022
    I guess you need to examine what your motivation for locking was in the first place. Did you lock to prevent masturbating entirely, deny yourself for a while to make it more pleasurable when you did orgasm, or maybe you wanted to remain locked as if you had a KH controlling you but like many you just don’t have anyone to keep you denied.
    If it’s a prevent thing, or a KH control fantasy without a KH then to me one week does seem to be a be a bit short. If it’s to enhance the intensity then one week to start with is perfectly reasonable. You can always build on it by going longer each time
     
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    #5 CuriousTurtle, Feb 27, 2022
    In case you're all curious, I rewarded myself with an edging session finished up with a ruined orgasm. It felt more intense then I've felt in quite a while. Once i was all cleaned up back into lock up i went.
     
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    #6 tomf_22033, Feb 27, 2022
    First congrats on the week. It’s not easy. So be proud of that.

    Next, there isn’t an official list of “musts” so you’re on your own if you want or need a reward.

    Some do and some don’t. Given your question it sounds like a reward may help you so why not a small one?

    Then for your next goal set a slightly bigger and/or nicer reward. Something that will motivate you.
     
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    #7 madams-sissysub, Feb 28, 2022
    Congratulations on your milestone!
     
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    #8 ragout_consent, Mar 31, 2022
    congratulations!
     
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    #9 Johnyjohn, Mar 31, 2022
    Congratulations I’m only fours days in and I’m afraid I’ll break but was thinking of using the catheter that came with my cage to help prevent me from doing something as I locked myself up any advice
     
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    #10 slavefox, Apr 1, 2022
    Congrats on your milestone. Maybe a non-sexual reward would be better so as to avoid the temptation of more frequent “milestones”?
     
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    #11 ragout_consent, Apr 1, 2022
    Yeah a sexual reward is almost like eating a piece of cake to celebrate losing a pound. But edging with a ruined orgasm is more like eating just one potato chip. Always wanting more
     
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