I'm new and nervous....

Hi all.
This is the first and only time i have ever told anyone about my love of chastity, so i'm a little nervouse, but also a little excited to tell someone else!
50yr old male, always had high sex drive, only been, and still in a vanilla marriage, but a bloody good one, and with a amazingly sexy wife!
Sort of found chastity by accident really, about 4 years ago, loved the idea of being controlled, dominated etc, but didn't reaaly know much about it, and wife isn't naturally dominant.
Anyway, to cut a long story short, we both talked about it, we read a few blogs, i couldn't wait to try it, first tried a CB6k, ok to start with, locked for a day or two at first, then up to a week, but that was all i could manage, cleanlyness, comfort etc was a factor.
So after a little research we found Mature Metal, i ordered the measuring rings, and ordered we did. Wow, what a piece of art, loved it. (My keyholde wife refers to it as her "little piece of jewellery")
Wife locked me up days, then weeks, she was absolulty loving it, it was changing her attitude on the whole chastity lifestyle.
I'm uncut and after maybe a year or so of wearing it she realised i could do with a smaller cage, off went the cage, back to MM, weeks later the new shortened cage arrived. She was so excited to get me back in it, within a few weeks, months etc she noticed my foreskin was always poking out and puffy. We talked about the problem, (i'd always been conscious of having a longer foreskin and had prevoiusly thought about it) she decided it would be better if i were circumcised.
So i had the circumsicion, results were fantastic, she absolutely loved the results, far far better being circumcised she said.
So here we are, a year later, locked for most of the time, unlocked and edged only occasionally, i'm in heaven.
My wife now sometimes lets me call her "mistress" she refers to herself as my keyholder, she wears a little diamond key around her neck, i treat her like a total queen, nothing is too good for her.
She feels and has the most sexual times ever now, far more sexual pleasure for her than me! In fact, since we've started this chastity journey our lives have improved beyond anything i could of imagined, we are much closer, more loving, and as for the sex, she gets it all, she is so sexually active now, i get hardly any, (gone from having an orgasm 2/3 times a week to now less than 10 a year, and still she wants to give me less) it's perfect, i'm so lucky.

Thats it, thats my little introduction, hope it was'nt too long.
Thanks for reading....
T

 

Thanks everyone, yes, you are correct, we are well matched. In fact I think we’re perfect together.
And as each week, month, year passes, she grows even more into her new found role, she’s loving it. And if she’s happy, that’s all that matters to me. Thanks for all your kind comments.

 

I’d like to start posting, asking questions etc on the other threads too.

 

I've just been told by me K/H that i'm using the wrong "user name" she refers to me as another name, am i able to change my name, if so, how doi do it.
Thanks

 

Hi & thanks, but how do i contact a "mod" still faily new to forums.

 

Hi. I did send a message to L-u-c-y, as above member kindly gave me the info, I think I sent the message correctly, or me being new, maybe I sent it to myself! Oh dear…….