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    #1 lockedNate, Jun 24, 2023
    Hi.
    I’ve been a swinger since my early 20s. Now in my late 40s. Told my wife about the lifestyle when we met 13 yrs ago and she’s allowed me to play solo with my swing friends that entire time.

    Last month, May 25, we started chastity. Part of the contract for her to hold the key was for me to take a break from swinging.

    She loves it. Wanted it permanent. I agreed. So no more swinging. In exchange, she hold the key, permanently.

    She is loving it. I find it a fair trade: Kink with others sometimes for 24/7 kink with wife at home.


    I have no issues being caged all day everyday. Still having trouble with nights. Hopefully I can master nighttime cage wearing sometime. Would be fun to try Locktober when it comes! :)
     
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    #2 madams-sissysub, Jun 24, 2023
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    #3 Spankuuuu, Jun 24, 2023
    Hello and welcome to chastity. what is your issues being locked up at night
     
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    #4 LesterBallard, Jun 24, 2023
    Good luck.
     
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    #5 MissyB, Jun 25, 2023
    Welcome. I hope you enjoy our community.
     
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    #6 lockedNate, Jun 25, 2023
    I wake up with hardon and penis gets a bit sore. Hard to sleep after. Would love to get over that jumó and be able to stay locked.
     
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    #7 Spankuuuu, Jun 25, 2023
    I still get hard at night. I don’t know if it will ever go away or not. But it’s not like I have a choice. I am locked 24/7.
     
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    #8 lockedNate, Jun 25, 2023
    It hurts and I ask wife to unlock, which she does. Maybe I should just deal with pain and see if I can manage two nights or more
     
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    #9 sissyjoanne, Jun 25, 2023
    HI and welcome.
    I suffer from waking up with my penis straining inside the cage. It can be painful and watch it doesn't hurt your KH's penis. However, after a while, I kinda like that feeling.
     
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    #10 Midnight1966, Jun 25, 2023
    Perhaps your tube is too long/wide? I had that issue with the CB3000 15 years ago - it allowed me to get pretty much fully erect during the night. This time I have the Cute Little Nub with a much shorter tube and that prevents my erection completely. No more night pain!
     
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    #11 Caged for life, Jul 3, 2023
    Hello and welcome to the mansion, I still have trouble at night and I've been locked for almost a year
     
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    #12 Spankuuuu, Jul 4, 2023
    I don’t figure I will ever get over the night issue. At times M plays with the balls and I just continue to get hard and seriously horny. I am always leaking all the time because she plays and spanks my balls all the time. I do love it. But I still would like an orgasm. But that is Mistresses decision.
     
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    #13 samseaborne, Jul 4, 2023
    It shouldnt hurt.
    You have an ill fitting device I suspect
     
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    #14 Ormaz, Jul 9, 2023
    Your cage probably is too large.
     
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    #15 Caged for life, Jul 9, 2023
    Welcome to the mansion, I'm in the same boat as you
     
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    #16 Coueus, Jul 9, 2023
    Welcome.
     
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    #17 lockedNate, Oct 23, 2023
    My wife and I are pretty similar. This is making take a break from swinging. But honestly, both would be nicer. Have you guys ever tried a combination of chastity and swinging yet?
     
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