What does everyone do with their new found free time in chastity? I have hours of porn, sex, and masturbation to replace with something???
Servcing your Lady, giving her pleasure, making sure you are presentable, free of hair... all takes time !
There are lots of things I am sure. You could always knock out those lingering projects in your life. Most people that stop masturbation (men in particular) find a lot of energy and free time on their hands instead of themselves. Of course doing something nice for your partner is key but why not something for you both? Go workout, get a good meal plan for you both, take up a sport. If you have a lot of free time, start a business or buy a boat.
As many of you know, my situation is somewhat unique. For the past 2 years, 4 months and 21 days I have been the full time cuckold and servant to Divine Mistress Angelique, the Goddess to Whom I had been married the previous eight plus years. A position that while exceedingly demanding and difficult, I serve with honor and pride. Technically, I never have any free time. All of my time is spent in service to Mistress, and she decides what occupies my time 24/7/365. For most of my first year of service this meant constant work, training, and discipline. If I was not working or serving as the object of Mistress' humiliation and ridicule so as to enhance her sexual experiences, I was sleeping, in bondage, or being disciplined. I have not read a book, watched a movie or a television show or pursued any of my former interests, such as golfing, since entering into my cuckolding relationship with Madam. Mistress works as a professional dominatrix. We have 4 "playrooms" in our house, so my duties include not only the household, but these rooms and our reception area. Mistress and her other doms and subs see clients from noon to midnight, so there is always something for me to do. Since being released from 36 days in "solitary confinement" Mistress utilizes my time much differently. During our transition from marriage to cuckolding she had me spend a weekend writing all about my sexuality. It was a chance to "come clean" and begin our new relationship with honesty. She already knew I had tremendously strong fetishes for latex, leather and female domination. What she didn't know was just how much time I had been spending on the internet collecting porn, and how much I masturbated. When we were considering a female dominant and/or cuckolding relationship, neither one of us had heard of a male chastity device, or forced chastity, or orgasm control. I assumed that the only thing that would change was our sex life. That she would agree to dominate me sexually, and possibly cuckold me through fantasy play. I thought she would be accepting of my porn and masturbating and that it would increase if anything. But once she had control, and once she learned about male chastity from Mistress Dominique, controlling my orgasms became her obsession. It is the first sexual obsession she ever had. The second was big, thick, long cocks that she could savor as she watched me anguish. So, lately, when there is not any obvious work for me to do, instead of making something up, or discipling or training me (I was pretty well trained before the first year was up), Mistress has me sorting through my old porn collection, sorting out the quality material from the crap, and Photoshopping photos that I used to masturbate to and editing videos I used to watch while whacking off. Of course, now I am locked in a CB6000s and every erection makes me squirm and I have no chance of masturbating. I think she does this mostly so I'm not spending as much time on my feet, which is insanely taxing when wearing heels, but it also keeps me in a constant state of sexual arousal and frustration which is pretty much what gives her life meaning. So the answer to your question is, now that chastity has allowed me more time due to a lack of masturbating, I am doing exactly the same things: looking at porn for hours, but without a means to satisfy myself. It is the ultimate irony; I have Mistress' permission to look at porn, and her encouragement to enjoy it to the utmost, but it does me no good. She often stands behind me, pressing her breasts to the back of my head, neck and shoulders, those beautiful DD silicone fun bags that I am not allowed to play with, teasing my nipples and caged cock with her fingers as she makes comments like, "Oh, she looks so beautiful in that latex corset. I should get one in that color. I'd love to suck on her pussy for a night. Don't you wish you could be with a woman that hot? Don't you wish you'd appreciated me when you had me?!" And so it goes.