How old when starting keyholding

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by BavarianWoman, Aug 14, 2023.

Random Thread
  1. A4w2
    Offline

    A4w2 Long term member

    Joined:
    Feb 11, 2022
    Messages:
    187
    Likes Received:
    163
    Trophy Points:
    53
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Los Angeles
    Local Time:
    6:13 PM
    we dabbled before over the past decade or so - before finding the baw titanium device - so really in her early 60s.
     
  2. SlaveOfMrsChastityXO
    Offline

    Joined:
    Nov 25, 2020
    Messages:
    26
    Likes Received:
    42
    Trophy Points:
    23
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    2:13 AM
    I was 27, Wife then Girlfriend was 24. We have lived a DS Chastity relationship for 10 years straight as of next month.
     
    Desairs and PawEee like this.
  3. Tina's Bitch
    Offline

    Tina's Bitch Long term member

    Joined:
    Oct 5, 2015
    Messages:
    207
    Likes Received:
    774
    Trophy Points:
    93
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    6:13 PM
    My wife 55, and myself 49. We are now 62 & 56. Married 26 years and the last 7 years of me being locked has been the best part of our marriage. She gets 10” from my strap on whenever she wants it and regularly lets me watch and film her masturbating.
     
    Desairs and Rectrix like this.
  4. cb1984
    Offline

    cb1984 Long term member

    Joined:
    Jan 31, 2017
    Messages:
    193
    Likes Received:
    332
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    8:13 PM
    My wife was mid 30s when she really took to the D/S lifestyle. However, we dabbled for 10 or so years prior to becoming a 24/7 lifestyle.
     
    Desairs likes this.
  5. SubSnuggler
    Offline

    SubSnuggler Owned by Mistress2and4you

    Joined:
    May 3, 2017
    Messages:
    1,374
    Likes Received:
    3,914
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    USA
    Local Time:
    8:13 PM
    My Wife was in her mid 30's when we decided to formally enter an FLR. I had some mental health issues, asked Her to take over, and She did, immediately.

    She was about 38 or so when She made chastity permanent and no longer optional for me. Honestly it is one of the best things that happened for me, as it keeps me focused and under Her control. Many years later, I have zero regrets. Many men would chafe at my lifestyle, but I know my limits and what I need and She provides that for me and takes amazing care of me. I would do anything for Her.
     
  6. Zevon
    Offline

    Zevon Long term member

    Joined:
    Jun 6, 2023
    Messages:
    791
    Likes Received:
    809
    Trophy Points:
    93
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    retired
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Virginia
    Local Time:
    9:13 PM
    Still one of the more amazing lifestyles on CM. Rarely do you find two people who gel so well with so many what would be over the top to most people lifestyle eccentricities, shall we say?
     
  7. Steelwerks Slave
    Offline

    Steelwerks Slave Steelwerks Slave

    Joined:
    May 21, 2019
    Messages:
    169
    Likes Received:
    381
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    SW USA
    Local Time:
    7:13 PM
    My goddess was 28
     
  8. dereknor
    Offline

    dereknor Junior Member

    Joined:
    May 18, 2009
    Messages:
    117
    Likes Received:
    132
    Trophy Points:
    53
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Hamburg
    Local Time:
    3:13 AM
    My first girlfriend loved to deny my orgasms. We had no idea about the concept of chastity, she just loved to keep me denied and desperate. Thats why chastity is not about cages for me
    I was 18 years old, she was 16.
     
    Desairs and locked_top like this.
  9. KMW’s
    Offline

    KMW’s Long term member

    Joined:
    May 6, 2018
    Messages:
    191
    Likes Received:
    228
    Trophy Points:
    43
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    8:13 PM
    21 when we first started
     
  10. locked_top
    Offline

    locked_top Caged tiger

    Joined:
    Jan 8, 2019
    Messages:
    705
    Likes Received:
    1,049
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    USA
    Local Time:
    8:13 PM
    Love these replies. My Wife was 49, I think, when I first showed her the cage. She loved it.
     
  11. Bill249017
    Offline

    Bill249017 Long term member

    Joined:
    Jul 4, 2021
    Messages:
    232
    Likes Received:
    751
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    UK
    Local Time:
    2:13 AM
    My wife was 59; I was 58.
     
  12. enslavedbyc
    Offline

    enslavedbyc Junior Member

    Joined:
    Apr 26, 2010
    Messages:
    570
    Likes Received:
    719
    Trophy Points:
    93
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    7:13 PM
    She was 18, I was 20.
     
    locked_top likes this.
  13. FinChasHusband
    Offline

    FinChasHusband New member

    Joined:
    Aug 24, 2021
    Messages:
    2
    Likes Received:
    0
    Trophy Points:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    4:13 AM
    We were in our fourties when this evolved into long term mode
     
  14. Bbchastity69
    Offline

    Bbchastity69 Member

    Joined:
    May 6, 2017
    Messages:
    26
    Likes Received:
    7
    Trophy Points:
    13
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Midwest US
    Local Time:
    8:13 PM
    My wife was 40, and I was 41. Almost hit a year now and I'm locked for at least 30 days in a row minus weekly cleaning checks. "Be careful what you ask for"
     
  15. KMW’s
    Offline

    KMW’s Long term member

    Joined:
    May 6, 2018
    Messages:
    191
    Likes Received:
    228
    Trophy Points:
    43
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    8:13 PM
    Here I thought I’d started out the earliest with us at 21 and 26.
     
  16. anasyrma
    Offline

    anasyrma Long term member

    Joined:
    Oct 4, 2010
    Messages:
    602
    Likes Received:
    1,682
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Engineer
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Virginia outside Washington, DC
    Local Time:
    9:13 PM
    I was with a previous girlfriend when we got interested in chastity. She expressed a desire to keep me locked every day and only release me when she wanted sex (which was quite often). I was 37 and she was 32.
     
  17. MsPamela
    Offline

    MsPamela Long term member

    Joined:
    Mar 25, 2020
    Messages:
    347
    Likes Received:
    2,724
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Female
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    US
    Local Time:
    8:13 PM
    I think we started dabbling in my early 40's, with me gradually taking more control of hubby's orgasms. I was 54 when we made chastity a full time thing.
     
    asastype and Susanstoy91 like this.
  18. locked_top
    Offline

    locked_top Caged tiger

    Joined:
    Jan 8, 2019
    Messages:
    705
    Likes Received:
    1,049
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    USA
    Local Time:
    8:13 PM
    That's young. How old are you now?
     
  19. collegeslave
    Offline

    collegeslave Junior Member

    Joined:
    Jul 5, 2009
    Messages:
    101
    Likes Received:
    84
    Trophy Points:
    38
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Philadelphia, PA
    Local Time:
    9:13 PM
    My wife and I were both 21 when we started playing with chastity with the cb-6000 about 15 years ago when we were still in college(hence the username).
     
  20. M@rcellus
    Offline

    M@rcellus Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 17, 2022
    Messages:
    802
    Likes Received:
    1,137
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    2:13 AM
    I was 42 she was 49. I said it's a thing and showed her on the Internet. She bought me my first cage and insisted I wear it. Sometimes I wish I'd never brought the subject up. She is very nice about it and encouraging but has said this is how it is now.
     
  21. Zevon
    Offline

    Zevon Long term member

    Joined:
    Jun 6, 2023
    Messages:
    791
    Likes Received:
    809
    Trophy Points:
    93
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    retired
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Virginia
    Local Time:
    9:13 PM
    if you are like my wife, it did not take her long at all to see the change in her man when he was permanently locked. As she said, it is the power she relishes, and the intends to hold on to that power, ergo that chastity, like it is is life itself
     
  22. enslavedbyc
    Offline

    enslavedbyc Junior Member

    Joined:
    Apr 26, 2010
    Messages:
    570
    Likes Received:
    719
    Trophy Points:
    93
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    7:13 PM
    Well that was using leather devices. We couldn’t find a metal tube until I was 26 (I commissioned a sterling silver tube similar to Centurion’s, secured by a PA And a frenum piercing).
     
  23. enslavedbyc
    Offline

    enslavedbyc Junior Member

    Joined:
    Apr 26, 2010
    Messages:
    570
    Likes Received:
    719
    Trophy Points:
    93
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    7:13 PM
    Sixty, but I don’t act my age.
     
  24. Lovinglylockdhubby
    Offline

    Joined:
    Aug 13, 2023
    Messages:
    17
    Likes Received:
    60
    Trophy Points:
    13
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Outside Boston,MA
    Local Time:
    9:13 PM
    My wife and I started at about 23 give or take
     
  25. subsouthla
    Offline

    subsouthla Member

    Joined:
    Jan 26, 2014
    Messages:
    18
    Likes Received:
    65
    Trophy Points:
    23
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    USA
    Local Time:
    9:13 PM
    My wife was 39.
     
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice