How do you and your KH celebrate special occasions? You know, the days that typical vanilla couples look forward to for romance/sex like "the birthday blowjob" or "anniversary sex". Are these typically release days for you or an opportunity to worship your KH and celebrate your lifestyle (no release for you)?
We have a great relationship where both party's love and desire are considered. So for us there is always a very hot and steamy day revolving around a special day. It often doesn't happen on the day because we tend to get together with friends and allow the wine to flow. But within short order we have some serious fun...
Well we just celebrated our anniversary and it was the first special day to happen while I am locked. We celebrated by me giving Her a great day of pleasure while I remained locked. Guessing that is how we’ll celebrate future special days. Although with my birthday coming up, I am hoping for a long, hard pegging since the Birthday BJ won’t happen.
We tend to do birthday orgasms. It's her birthday soon so she will expect an orgasm. She also had one on my birthday.
Wifey will never unlock for a special day. That's her way of giving me what I want. And on my birthday, she gives me birthday kicks while locked. My balls ache for days.
Yes they are typically release days. But depends on the day. My wife like sex and doesn't want to be denied, particularly on special days. So, our anniversary and her birthday are celebrations and I am happy to do my part to celebrate with her by giving her what she wants. Interesting little side bit. I'm about a month in to a six month "chastity sentence". We structured it that I get out on my birthday. Also, we're thinking that for the last month, I'll be denied orgasms. My birthday will be a very special day.
My wife told me I might get an orgasm as a Christmas present… A few days later she asked me if instead of getting each other presents this year, she wants to spend the money to go away in the new year. I booked us a mini break… She told me I’d be in the cage whilst we’re away! I feel I messed up.
It depends. If my scheduled ruined orgasm happens to fall on a holiday then lucky me, if not then only she cums. As for the real deal, my birthday and our anniversary are currently the only times I’m allowed them. That could always change though.
I love celebrating special occasions. Years ago, those was typicall times where I'd make hubby wait a little longer than normal and then let him have an orgasm on the big day. It's been a lot different this year. Those special days aren't falling anywhere near the times I'd consider letting him have an orgasm, so I have to find other ways to celebrate. For hubby's birthday, I gave him several edges throughout the day, and topped it off with a ruined orgasm at the end. For my birthday, hubby spent the day pampering me. I'm not really sure what to do about our anniversary - it's in late October and I'll have to figure out how that fits into our Locktober plans. Christmas might work out... he'll be due for an orgasm in December.
My wife likes to say as a male I’ve had an excessive amount during the first half of my life so she’s leveling the playing field during the rest of it. I don’t buy it though. She’s just taking them away because she can.
This is evolving, but lately my wife likes to look ahead to see what special day might be upcoming. Since we use a dice roll to determine my next release date, she might extend my lockup until then. Or she might just skip the dice roll and plan to release me on the special day. Special days are: my birthday, our anniversary. But honestly, given that our target is going at least 1 month between releases, every release is a special day in her mind (and mine!!!!). Just this morning, she commented "Let me know when you're feeling good again so we can celebrate our passion!" (I've been under the weather the last week and my scheduled release date is only 2 days away.)
So far ever since we starting locking up 23/7 I proposed to my KH, we had our regular anniversary, had my birthday and we went on vacation. I wasn’t released for any of those days. I am only released when she wants me to be (or for showers.) I still pleasure her whenever she wants.