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    I am very new to chastity, I have been in for 5 nights and having a hard time sleeping with the cage on, can't wait for Friday to get here where I will be released while in the company of my GF
     
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    Yeah, nights are the worst. Chastity cages are instruments of torture I think.
     
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    You just have to get used to it, it takes time I’m afraid. But your body does get used to it and adapts eventually.
     
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    Ok thanks for the input
     
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    Yes, it really takes time. Eventually you're so tired you sleep for a few hours and it gets better. Never easy, though
     
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    But the benefits are great ! You become more aroused than you ever will. Speaking from my limited experience, and there are far better people on here than me to tell you,
     
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    Hi mate, i am a week in now, i am a week in i have gone from waking between 2 -3 now to 5-6, i now use a strap that prevents the cage coming away so much and i moisturise regular. Good luck
     
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    Try using your moisturisers in the morning and sleeping with a perfectly dry cage. Less slippage should prevent the erections tugging too hard.
    Hairdryer before bed :+1:
    Still take some getting used to but I found it better that way.
     
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    Had a great.weekend with my GF, she unlocked me for play time, then said we need to get u use to being locked all day and night so we will start out slow no unlock on Tuesday or Thursday . Gonna see how that feels
     
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    Last night was my first night of my new routine of 1 night no cage and next night caged all night and it was definetely sleepless. I am getging use to the daily wear , just night is more of a frustration.
     
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    Day time for me sometimes i forget it is on. At night it feels like i am be tortured
     
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    I always found that if I got up and peed, the erection would subside! Then back to bed
    The erections you are getting are a normal part of REM sleep! This is part of your dream cycle! It’s also a way your body prevents you from peeing in your sleep!
    My advice to you is get up, go pee, and go back to bed!
     
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    Hello,

    i am in the same position like you, a newbee in beeing locked.

    You are right, the nights are the worest part of wearing an cage. I hope also that all comments who are telling you that this would be better, are right.

    I could only tell from me, there are some things who dont let me calm down directly. But with each night more I also mean, that it was always an little bit better :)
     
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    Sometimes i feel same and forgot the cage some hours :)
     
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    It’s actually interesting while you’re learning to sleep in a cage, if you check the time every time your cage wakes you you’ll see your sleep pattern.
    Mine was always around 5 hours of solid sleep and then every 45 mins after that the cage would wake me.
    I never felt tired after as it coincided with my normal pattern and I never woke up fully.
     
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    so long? I reach now maybee 3 hours.
    How long du you are in "training" with the cage?
     
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    It’s been some time since I was ‘new’ to this, but if I remember it was maximum 2 weeks of constant wear before the nocturnal erections became just a pleasurable pressure.
    Now, if I have a break or a drastic change to the cage it takes about 3 days to get used to again.
    Best advice if you want long term 24/7. Just push through it, it’s two weeks for the rest of your life in comfort. Then never take it off for more than an hour.
     
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    Morning erections have, pretty much, made my cage an alarm clock (cock?) now. Often I'm getting out of bed at 4:30AM ~ 5AM - and starting my day at that time.
     
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    Sounds good! :)
    I will suggest them :D i could not really talk to this point, I not had my first release at moment :D
     
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    I know, my GF explained that with time I will for that I am wearing it, I just have to change my sleeping position from on my stomach to my side or back which is a hard habit to break
     
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    Right the position atself was also changing an bit for me.
     
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    Had a good time with GF this weekend, wo t see her until nect sunday, the thurdays to sunday lock up next week will be the longest continual lock up.
     
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    Just foubd out that My Gf will not be seeing me this weekend until Sunday therefore I will be lock for 3 days, this will be the longest continual lock, still finding it difficult changing sleep position from stomach to back or side, i tend to roll alot when I sleep
     
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    Sleeping with the cage is definitely a challenge but I feel it's pretty easy now. Don't know if I'd recommend the one night on/one off thing. It's really about just getting used to it and I think the on/off will just make it tougher. Although you said you went 5 days and still had trouble sleeping. That would make me suspect the cage/fit. For me, yes, erections are a big distraction but kind of fun at the same time. That ache that comes with an erection in the cage, for me, is one of the best feelings. It's gotten so, that now (4 weeks in), NOT having the cage on is more a distraction than having it on. So, I'd suggest just sticking with it. Make sure the fit is right though.
     
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