Changing rooms

No, we don't involve other people in our kink

 

Almost happened to me in a museum once. Other people are more appreciative about this than you'd think when they find out, you know.

 

It’s easy to change before a swim. Honestly, I just wear my shorts under my trousers before I go in. No chance of being caught.

I dry, change and redress without anyone seeing me. At times I share a cubicle with my toddler. (Out of necessity and before anyone gets antsy about me exposing that to him, it’s safer than leaving him outside on his own!!)
Anyway, it’s never been an issue. It’s easily avoided.

How would I feel about someone seeing me caged?
Depends if they were meant to. If I’d put myself in a position where I was trying to avoid it and someone looked… pervert!
If I had exposed myself in front of someone else… ashamed of myself.

Flashing is not a fun sport.

 

I have the same situation pretty regularly. I swim about three days a week and so I go into the shower, and pull the curtain closed to change into my swimsuit. There was an unusual day where there was no one in the locker room at Gold's gym so I changed over in the general area. I was about 10 seconds away from getting caught and seen. I might be a little embarrassed if someone saw my cage and I am not sure how I would be able to do that gym moving forward. Kind of risky but that adds to the Rush / Danger that comes with being locked up.

 

Its up to you to be embarrassed or not.
Chastity isn't illegal.
You're doing nothing bad or wrong.
it's fun, daring, intriguing and exciting and you are at the cutting edge of it all.

Humanity has a fear of the unknown so the more that everyone here hides their chastity the longer it will remain a dirty repellent or embarrassing furtive secret.
if youre brave enough then exposure accidental or otherwise can change how you and everyone else perceives male chastity for the better.

I remember so well the sense of relief I experienced when i first went out in public cross dressed.
I braced myself ready to be publicly humiliated, to be stoned by youths or covered up and whisked away by the police. And nothing happened/ And no one noticed.
It was very liberating.

These are no longer the days to be scurrying about in the shadows in fear.
besides, your life is too short.
And no one is going to notice it.

 

Oh confidence yes.
Of course it depends how you feel about yourself.

 

Not great, I choose not to involve the general public in a personal kink they didn't consent to be a part of.

 

So for example, wearing high stiletto heels, long nails and other publicly visible sexual displays ak because they have become to be acceptable?
Surely Chastity is not acceptable because it hasn't been accepted yet?

 

You are clothed with your genitals not on display in all those examples. Not flashing a sex toy.

 

I don't think he was referring to flashing.
And I don't think of aCB as a toy.

 

It is a toy though no matter your thoughts. Believe it or not others probably have zero desire to indulge in your kink.

 

This is fair if you're quickly changing and get seen. If you're strolling to shower room and showering etc it's not an accident.

 

You can reduce the risk of exposing your sey toy to others down to zero by not wearing in that place.

FFS, this is such a simple concept.

 

Most often than not this is not a decision a caged person can make, it's up to the KH.

 

You seem to be exceptionally closed with your views, and certain that other people are wrong in theirs.

 

It's a sex toy by definition hate to break that to you.

 

By whose definition? When MM sent me my cage, it actually got through customs with the description of “costume jewellery”. You’re deluding yourself with narrow mindedness

 

Of course it was labeled as such. Dildos aren't shipped labeled dildo. Only delusion is denying you're wearing a sex toy.

 

They can take the cage off, or they could not go.

Let's not kid ourselves that a cage is impossible to take off. That's just fantasy.

 

Again, by whose definition? Sex shops sell clothing, shoes, jewellery, all sorts. At what point have you decided that they need the “sex” prefix? I don’t believe the category is as binary as you’ve decided.

 

Jewelry is attached to you via a piercing etc, pretty clearly defined. Something that locks your dick so you can't use it is very clearly a sex toy.