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    Yeah, I was wondering about the prep factor and receptivity factors too. I love anal play, but there are many times when it isn't practical, either because it would be potentially injurious, or messy. My capacity for any messiness is very low, but I suppose others might not be as concerned as I am.
     
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    He asked to go to the stool again in the evening. He asked very kindly.
    He really enjoys it to move at the dildo, it arouses him a lot. The stress in his legs affects his erection, he goes soft.
    No idea, how that might develop but it is a sweet struggle that he gets too exhausted to reach climax or even getting near.
    When he sits down. the boner comes back but without relief.

    That is a nice play.
     
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    Spontaneous pegging is not an issue but the stool needs preparation.
     
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    That dildo chair is such a great idea. Never struck my mind ever. He must feel he loose total control when he get himself installed. Chair could be place in different places too. How about the shower or I front of a window you control if he is visible or not. Using a blind fold he don't know if he is visible could be a total mindfuck. Looking forward to read how this progress
     
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    So many nice and dirty ideas.
    But our flat is in the eightth floor, so nobody will see him from outside.
     
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    Tomorrow will be day thirteen and I plan to make him failing tomorrow.
     
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    Im a little late with it , I had to resize the picture. but here is a picture of the chair I made some years ago.
    any size dildo can fit it has a adjustable strap to use for how deep the dildo goes in. and the other hole is for balls to go thru . I hope ot might give some ideas for his chair
     

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    That was great fun yesterday. I must admit that I am almost a bit afraid about myself.

    Initially I broke his seal and took off the tube and rolled a condom on him. I told him to bend over and fucked him with the big dildo. He really enjoyed it. I took some ropes and fixed the dildo inside him.
    Then I tied him to the bed and started to ride him at my back door. He was aroused soon and said that he might come soon. I didn't answer that and continued my ride. Felt good for me as well.
    Then he told that he is close to cumming and a bit later asekd about permission. I just said „No“, he bagged for it and finally came. I stopped moving kept flexing my muscles. He got hard again and I continued until I came and then continued until he came a second time in my ass.

    I sat on him, he was still inside me. I asked him about what we have agreed. He didn't say much. I reminded him that his orgasm without permission will result in a cancelled release date.
    Did we agree on that? I asked him. He admitted.
    So, we will skip release date on St. Valentine and the next one will be in almost five weeks from now. It's all your fault.
    He wanted to say something but I put my finger onto his lips. Don't make it even worse.

    I went off him, took of the condom, cleaned him and caged him. I showed him my last seal I had available and told him that it will last the next five weeks.
    I presented my pussy to his face and he knew what was expected.

    Later I untied him and we went to shower. In bed he was sad a bit but I told him that we both agreed on and I am proud that the accepts that.
    Pacta sunt servanda.
     
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    Sounds like an amazing situation for both of you. Thanks for sharing. :)
     
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    I love the way u are treating and using your husband. It's very clever how you made him cum when he's not allowed and now he must accept the agreed punishment
     
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    I am currently testing his limits but do I need to go there or even beyond?
    Most probably we won't skip Valentine's release date but I won't tell him too soon. Depends on his performance during the next days.
     
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    Can I asked did you make him clean the cum from his condom
     
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    No, that is beyond my threshold, especially on day thirteen.
     
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    I have to call a spade a spade. He was not at fault for cumming, it was your fault he came. You were on top, you were controlling the rhythm. He acted appropriately and told you he was there and you kept going. It's your dynamic but I would be very resentful if I was sabotaged and punished by something out of my control. I am always wary when expectations don't meet reality nor biology and a punishment is made that cannot be avoided....
     
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    Sounds reasonable.
     
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    You're not comfortable with him eating his own cum?
     
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    I must admit again, that you are the lawyer of chaste husbands in that forum here and I will have to talk to him.
     
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    I am not comfortable with playing with a condom that has been in my ass for a wild ride.
     
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    Work week is done. Now we will have to do the final preparations for my sister's wedding on Saturday. Sad thing, there is no snow in the Bavarian Alps at around 1300 m of elevation.

    We will be their best man and maid of honor.

    On Sunday we will bring them to the Airport. In case there wont't be staff on strike again, which has happened a lot recently. They will spent their honeymoon at a cruise through the Carribean.

    We will be on holidays for the next week as well, there is carnival and half of Germany won't work anyways.
     
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    Sounds like a fun weekend and a fun week ahead
     
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    I am just here to remind KH's that not all chaste men want to be sissified, castrated and pegged with jagged glass dildo as some here would insist...
     
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    There are some people who want to be treated unfairly. Some people - the more unfair - the more they like it.
    For example a person who is in chastity, but their partner is not - they encourage their partner to have sex with other people, while the chaste person is denied. They want to be treated unfairly.

    Some people want to be spanked or whipped, even when they haven't committed any kind of infraction.
    It's not fair, but it is what the sub wants.
     
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    I think that is the point.

    Sometimes as a Dom, I would intentionally make my sub fail. I actually prefer "achiever" subs, so forcing this scenario isn't always appropriate (my subs usually thrive on success and achievement and can really struggle with failure), but in general it can be a way to test and/or demonstrate a power-exchange pathway that might otherwise not be encountered. Keep in mind that she said she will probably NOT actually remove the "lost" (punishment) release... this is also not surprising.

    The point is to let the sub know they may not always success, and to show what failure means (sometimes not experiencing can be fear and anxiety inducing, which can be bad). Some subs also thrive on the psychological mind-fuck of these situations... forcing a failure reinforces who is in control and can really knock some subs deep into subspace. Ego, especially in males, sometimes needs to be tamed a bit, and a manufactured failure can do just that.

    If we assume the dominant person is benevolent and cares about their submissive, these details aren't as troubling as they otherwise could be.

    Being playfully evil and intentionally unfair can add much flavour to a power-exchange dynamic.
     
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    The marriage has been a wonderful event.
    But while everybody thought, they will meet the couple again at Sunday morning, there was a secret getaway plan.
    At night around 2 am, when most people went to their rooms, we took bride and groom into our car and drove to Munich. Husband and I remained sober (at least at Bavarian standards). At our flat we changed clothing and continued to the airport. They slept a few hours in the car and after check-in and baggage drop-off we met for breakfast in the beergarden at the airport. They are actually brewing beer in a beergarden at the Munich airport.

    We have had a good Bavarian breakfast there. At some point, my sister said to her new husband that they have missed the first married night but they will catch up on it. She gave him her key necklace and told him to let the cage remain in Germany. I asked my husband to follow him to toilet inconspicuously and take it. So they went. When they returned, I asked my husband to go to toilet again to remove his own cage as well.

    Their plane will take off soon. Right now we are driving home and I asked him to sent our new Peacemaker on maiden voyage before falling asleep and ending our test period a bit earlier. He did not understand completely, so I told him that he didn't fail a few days ago and that we might try to find a resume later in bed.
     
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    that's kind of you.
     
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