Prince Albert Lock issues

You had the piercing quite a while ago but how much have you stretched it and over what time span? When did you stop stretching and “rest” at that size before switching to padlock? The ideal is to have the hole well stretched and fully healed so there are no skin breaks and the hasp slides in easy. Remember the hasp is not made of surgical steel and probably not entirely smooth.

 

My other question is, how important is “truly inescapable” and what does that mean? Does someone else have the key? Is it someone you see on a regular basis or a remote KH?
I understand the appeal of “truly inescapable” as a fantasy, but in real life, over time, what keeps you caged is your own commitment - to your KH and to yourself.

 

Ah well no wonder! You need to stretch it to around 6mm for long term wear. And that takes time because you need to go up is small increments with a couple of weeks at least in between. Tbh I can’t remember how long it took overall, maybe someone here who did it more recently can say.
The point is to end up with a hole that is wide and fully healed, so that the weight of whatever you’re wearing is distributed over a wider area of supporting skin. What you have now is going to cut like a knife!

Also in no sense of the word is a 2.4mm hasp “inescapable”, you could cut that open in seconds with a bolt cutter.

 

You will likely find that you won't need to stretch a PA. Wearing slightly heaving jewelry or a small additional weight will gently stretch it all by itself.

Purchase a cheap plastic stretching set but for your own sake don't actually use it to stretch, rather use them to only measure the current size of your PA before buying good jewelry or a lock or ...

 

Is your PA lock designed for a piercing (machined titanium or 316 stainless) or a standard luggage padlock which is a horrible idea?

 

i have to agree, the cheap metal in most luggage locks is going to cause irritation in a lot of people.

 

I wore a pa lock that is stainless from eBay with pouch style underwear for a long time to stretch my hole to go 2 gauge pa lock. The pouch gives enough weight to stretch it but not hurt it. My wife kind of likes the lock better than the cage. Looks hotter to her

 

What is the gauge (thickness) of the PA? For chastity, you should use no smaller than 4 gauge, 2 gauge is better.

 

The question has been asked, but yes the thickness of the PA makes a lots of difference. Mine started to be comfortable at 5mm / 4 gauge.

But honestly, still the only type of cages I can wear longterm are titanium ball PA cages. Titanium PA only cages do cause discomfort after a few days. The weight being distributed on the ball ring makes a big change regards comfort.