An open door

I guess, we both are size queens. The difference between the Nexus and the Peacemaker was not a big issue, on both sides. But I didn't finish him to orgasm. Release date will be on Wednesday and he will remain uncaged the next three days. He may use his dildo stool as often as he wants, on Wed I will allow him to use his hands to support his legs and try to achieve orgasm.

Our resume for now. We both are into male chastity. We agree to our calendar agreement. He really felt sad about the incident a few days ago, but he didn't knew how to deal with it. Thankfully there has been a lot to be done for the wedding, so he did not think much about it.

FLR seems to be a play thing for us, while chastity seems to become a lifestyle meanwhile. Some adjustments in household chores are not a big thing. Having him shaved is not really important. But we agree that some dominance play can be delicious occasionally.

I told him to clean both cages. The Looker really scares him. How can that insert fit into a penis, even going behind the base ring?
Maybe we tried the wrong sounds, I told him.

 

He trained a few times at the dildo today. The squatting drains his blood from our penis to his legs. The boner gets soft. It is arousing to him but not even close to orgasm.
We don't know yet, how this might develop. I told him to give him a good show tomorrow, to see whether this can maintain the boner.

I just watched him riding the dildo. I told him that maybe he is not loaded sufficiently to get aroused more intensely. That was the right level of dirty communications between us, so I continued. In six weeks at his birthday we will celebrate that I am controlling his orgasms for a year meanwhile and that we slightly went to an interval of four weeks.
I told him that I am very proud about his development. He didn't exactly knew, whether he should be embarressed or proud about that. I am fine if he is both at the same time.

 

He tried it again at the stool but seems to be far from orgasm. I told him that I will finish him with the strapon tomorrow.

 

We made a new experience together again.
He was riding the Peacemaker while I was laying on my back. It was comfortable for him. He leaned back, with his hand behind him on my knees. It seems that he got an orgasm without an ejaculation for the first time ever.

 

I reported just shortly about releases date.
We started late at night on Tuesday with the pegging event.
The next morning I told him to kneel in front of me and ruining himself onto my feet and lick them afterwards.
After that preparation his stamina was great through the day.
We talked about his anal orgasm without ejaculation. To understand that completely we will try to reproduce it. Evebtually we will have regulate this to prevent masturbation. Will see later.

The whole week was extremly warm wheather, so we strated our bathing season in middle of February using neoprene suits. Air temperature was around 18 °C was at 11°C.
Many people were around the lake, they usually don't care if somebody is cahnging clothes. So we got naked and into our suits. He was scared that his cage might be recognized. Nobody cared about it, except me.

I joked, what a pity, that swimming season started that early, because I wanted to take him to the piercing studio at his birthday.

 

Seems to work quite well.

 

Seems that we are in some chastity routine meanwhile. FLR does not seem to be a real issue for both of us but some occasional dominance or humiliation play seems to kick us both.
Our calendar scheme still seems to work for both of us. He does not have to fear eternity and do not have to fear to command eternity.

 

Tomorrow he will be in chastity for a week again. Should be a good time to start with stamina and self control training again.

 

We have had a nice stamina training session.
I tied him to the bed, sat on his face and unlocked him and started to stroke him. I gave him a series of edges. I told him that he should stop licking me when he is near is edge and concentrate about not to get an orgasm.
He gets frustrated when he is not allowed to lick me. So he has to deal with his arousal until he is allowed to lick me again. Let's seehow this might work.

 

Didn't set up a clock but I assume between half and a full hour.
Maybe another half an hour until I was able to store him back into the cage before releasing him.

 

Tomorrow in the morning sister and her husband will return from their honeymoon. We will be waiting at the airport for their arrival. And we will bring his Looker, just in case it is needed.

My husband is really scared about that urethral sound. Moths earlier I reported here that I took off and later on again the Looker at my brother in law. Anatomy seems to vary a lot down there on men.

 

I regularly send my husband on his dildo stool, to prepare him for fisting him on is birthday in a month.
I asked him if we should increase size again, he told that his limit in depth might be met already but he could take more stretching.

 

But there is something we don't know yet, how to deal with it. Penetrating him, seperating orgasm from ejaculation, possily even from getting a boner. This is an issue, we do not understand yet. He is focussing on his anal arousal. I want him to be aroused. But I want to control his relief, not just his orgasm. He fears to orgasm with a caged boner, it hurts him intensely when the sperm release is blocked. He looses erection when squatting on his dildo stool.
I told him that I want him to be horny and each time to be it a bit hornier. And that I want to have the complete control about his orgasms or reliefs. At least I want to control everything he enjoys sexualy. He subordinates to this.

His birthday will be far away from release date and I want to keep on our schedule but also want him to enjoy his birthday fisting. Need to find a solution for that.

 

As time goes by.
I plan to continue some time.

 

Thanks for your input.
We will have to gain experience about it.