An open door

Don't know yet, but no prejac training.

 

The prostate thing seems to be a difficult issue. So I decided to play it wrong purposely.
His last orgasm is almost three weeks ago. On Monday the final week before release date will start and during that week I keep him locked completely. But for the last days and in cluding the weekend I send him to his dildo stool. His arms and legs gets fixed to the stool and he gets blindfolds and a ball gag.
I took off his cage and he got a boner without even stroking him.
I took a finger inside me and put some of my moisture into his nose.
Then I started to arouse him and took him to the edge. I told him that I will edge him once for each day since his last orgasm. That was sixteen times yesterday. He was brave receiving the first dozen but the last ones already hurt him a bit.
I asked him if he likes to have a dig dildo in his ass. He nodded.
I asked him if he tries to arouse himself that way. He nodded again.
I told him that I will actively try to link his orgasm to our penis exclusively. Anal penetration shall symbolize his submission. But he shall never think of it as a possibility to get an orgasm without my permission or even think of any kind of masturbation.

The session lasted for more than an hour and we both drooled down there. His mouth is in the perfect height to lick me when I stand in front of him but he was gagged.

After the session I unloked his hands and told him to put them onto his knees to support squatting. That really works great to let him loos the boner. I caged him and took off cuffs, gag in blindfold. We went to bed and he fell asleep very soon.

When I sent him under the blanket in the morning to lick me, I told him that we will repeat this in the evening.

 

It seems difficult, there are multiple aspects.

Having him at his stool, bound, blindfolded, gagged and edged and whispering into his ear that I will control his orgasms completely seems to turn on both of us.

Prostate orgasms seems to be rare to achive. Even this wide mansion reports just very occasionally about it. I get the impression, the more you seek for it, the rarer it gets. So maybe it would be an alternate approach just to take off the pressure and stop working on it and maybe getting surprized by it as it was last time.

Furthermore he seems to increasingly enjoy to put large dildos into his butt. I don't want him to enjoy it to much and regain control about his arousal.

 

Sunny and almost twenty degrees here in Munich. So let us renew our thong tan lines.
I asked my husband to shave my pussy, the hair grew since a year. That made him a wet patch in his thong.

 

That happens only around Christmas.

 

I assume, it is the one from your profile.
Does it control an erection well?

 

I found an announcement for a CFNM event in a swinger club but it is described as lady's choice as well. The rules say that man have to be naked all the time. Shall I ask about cock cages?
Might be an interesting birthday present for him.

 

I just sent them a message and got an answer. Wouldn't have done that a year ago.

The CFNM event has an amphasis on ladies choice. I guess, the ladies shall have the opprtunity to check the toys.
But they mentioned a dom/sub event a week later. Might fit as well.

Both events will be in May. His birthday will be on 28th this month. I won't go into details to him and allow him to accept or refuse till end of March.

I am already thinking about what dress to wear that night.

 

Leash, colllar, cuffs and his cage that will be his complete outfit.
But I plan to remain the key at my necklace around my head and reward him later at home. But there is no script written yet.

 

I took my husband into chastity on his 42nd birthday, almost a year ago.
I guess, the answer to life, the universe and everything is mal chastity.

 

Next release date is scheduled on Monday. A sauna Sunday might be interesting for him.