Succes Story

Hi Everyone!
I've been lurking around this website for a while and thought I should start contributing.

I told my wife that I was interested in Chastity about two years ago. I got interested in it after seeing it on a sex toy online store. It picked my curiosity, and after some research and discarding the usual bullshit, I thought it made sense from a male perspective.

So for the back story, I'm a typical "alpha" male in the sense that I earn all the money (quite a bit of it, enough to be a sole provider to a wife and a child while still thriving and investing), I have a lot of ambition, I'm attractive, and I've always gotten any women I land my eyes on and I'll be more than happy to jump at your throat if you're an asshole. Finally my wife is a Trophy, I immediately married her when I realized I could not possibly find a stronger, more intelligent or more beautiful woman. There is no compromise, she's got it all. She's so incredibly perfect that I don't think I could get it up for any other woman after her.

I don't view chastity as a kink but more as a practical and logical tool to make a monogamous relationship perfect. We men have an insane sex drive, and ambition can get in the way of what women want after a while in a committed relationship. You know, the whole Disney prince thing. I don't agree with the borderline misandrist things in this area, but I have to admit that we behave better when women when locked. I guess the rumors are confirmed. On my end I also feel like sexual dominance after a long day of making my ambition real can feel more like being at work yet again, so it's not all for her. I still enjoy dominance, sometimes but that wouldn't be my default anymore, while I used to find woman-on-top absolutely unbearable.

At first, I told my wife about it and the benefits, she googled it and thought it could make sense and to give it a try, but she wasn't quite convinced. She had some issues with me being neglectful and aggressive at times. To me it clicked immediately, it's the damn dick, but it took some time for her to make sense of it. After all, she doesn't have the experience of being in a man body to understand it quickly.

We immediately bought a crappy CB-6000. Worst cage ever by the way. Some trial and error later I ended up in the cobra and now in chain mail cage.

From this point the story will resonate with many, she missed the real thing so I would unlock often to do her, she would want ejaculation so I had to come, etc. It was making her happy so it was making me happy, however it wasn't really inducing the change for the benefits to show up.

Eventually, as life happens, we ended up in situations where we didn't have sex for a few days because too busy or too tired etc etc etc. You know the drill. During these times I would be so horny I'd be all over her. She really liked that, and while I thought this wasn't real, it turns out I started doing things without realizing it, like doing some chores just to see her happy and get an opportunity to cuddle her super hard.

From this point, she started really noticing, and so did I, that the cage was making me quite productive and she would in fact demand that I'm putting my cage on. So from this point I wasn't really able to go a few days without it like I used to sometimes which was both scary and exciting, she really started just wanting it on.

But, she would still unlock me for sex quite often. But the thing is we had already stopped the contraceptive pill a while ago because I was preferring using condoms over seeing her dealing with side effects of the medication. So I asked her if we should just try getting a dildo and have sex this way on her red days, because I don't fancy condoms that much and I just really enjoy focusing on her.

Me, me, me, me. I know. Well, from this point she went a little crazy, got a sex machine and went through a trial and error of dildos until she found one she liked and a couple of thousands of dollars later she had a setup she really enjoyed.

I realized that she started getting horny at me being caged when I was having sex with her (using the dildo and eating her from behind at the same time) when she had a massive orgasm seconds after touching my cage with her leg.

A few days later, we were on her "green" days but she texted me to get the machine ready. I replied "We're on a green day" and she just text back "I know." She then told me that she just really enjoys how I'm able to "love on her" when we're using the machine.

Sooooo here I am lol. I'm not sure what's coming next, we both have strong boundaries so I think we landed in a place that will stay fairly stable from this point, except that maybe she'll start using sex as a reward for me which gets me excited because I know it will boost my productivity further.

There you go, a real woman who learned how men works and got into a happy marriage, it's beautiful. I still hold the keys to the kingdom, but she holds the key to the cage. We both enjoy this dynamic.

Thanks for reading!