Caged orgasm VS Ruined orgasm

Just don't find thought appealing and she don't really like me getting off unless its my scheduled day of release. To her the point of being caged is so I can't get off. If I did in my cage it would defeat purpose of it all. What we have works for us. It evolves into ruins etc then she's in charge.

 

I hate the guilt, ashamed feeling after sneaking a caged orgasm. I rarely do that anymore. I prefer to milk myself anally with a dildo. This method is always sensation free. Ruined orgasms are pleasurable to me because of the wicked smile I get from my Wife/KH afterwards.

 

I Carnt actually orgasm with a cage on, I can have A or P orgasms but not regular, so it’s ruined for me, plus my Madam loves the frustration of a ruined one.

 

I think any orgasm that is intended and resultant of penile stimulation will suffer a ‘drop’. I don’t necessarily feel this correlates to a cage or not.
(For clarity, when I say orgasm, I mean orgasm. Not ejaculation.)

If you are finding that there is a difference between yourself providing the orgasm or your partner it’s probably a result of their disconnection with the sensations they are providing.
You will naturally be able to provide a quicker and more comprehensive orgasm when you are controlling it yourself. Whereas they are only doing things they think you will like. The stimulation you desire can change in the moment and it takes a very well versed partner to know exactly what you’d need at that point.
This however, leads towards more longer periods of stimulation which can provide a better orgasmic climax as a result.

I would 100% suggest that a caged orgasm is just a real orgasm that feels uncomfortable. If your body responds and your penis retreats back into a comfortable state, you know it’s not ruined. You may not suffer any drop as you still feel that driving horniness after… but I imagine that’s because your desires really focussed on pleasure to your erect penis.

An uncaged ruin however, now that’s true frustration. All that pleasure and it doesn’t result in any form of climactic end, just a functional trickle of semen. The slight contraction. Your penis still standing to attention yearning for more… If you can do that to yourself and refrain from the giving yourself a post-ruin orgasm you are a better man than me!

 

I can't cum in my cage. Tried hard, maybe I need a massaging/vibrating tool.

 

There is so many good responses in this thread and so a varied answers. So I'll add to it. I love it, drop or not. it's such a mind trip to cum while caged full O or ruined. Now I don't care to do it on my own. I prefer this with my wife. It's so easy to cheat in chastity, to me, then why do it at all if that's what you are going to do. I'm not locked up a lot and not for long periods of time. I have gone months locked but that is not the norm in our relationship.

when locked and very horny and wife and I are enjoying each other in this state. We have gotten the wand out for her with me rubbing on it. She likes it when I finish so more often I get to. But sometimes she says no. So fully "worked up" if she cums and I'm haven't but have lot of stimulation from wand she sometimes will back off and leave my super frustrated and tell me to go to bed. But if I do cum she will also get hers and also roll over and go to sleep. To me this is almost as bad as being left frustrated. As I got relief but I'm still locked and a mess.

So in short I like to have both ruined and full O's while caged. Especially if I stay locked afterwards.

As other have also said her. Milking in the cage is also fun. for me, it feels really good but there is zero drop. I like to do it because it keeps me horny. As typing this now, I need to go put on my smallest cage and buzz buzz.

 

I´ll share this to the topic: it was right today when after only 3 days in the cage - and the plan was for 2 more days - that I was so horny that I feared I would come involuntarily in the cage. I also felt that even if that was avoided, I would be extremely distracted from any other activity:
so I gave up (i.e. unlocked and went ahead). For my protocol no problem... if nature enforces it that way... I won´t stand in the way. I don´t want to experience caged orgasms (but that´s just me). Only thing is that I was surprised that the orgasm forced itself upon me so strongly, and so soon after caging.

 

PornAddict ..... Totally support and agree with your advice and comments. Wife Sue (my KH) and I began playing with chastity years ago. At first I would be locked for a few days at a time, then this was gradually and slowly increased to a few weeks at a time. Eventually, this became months (and I was completely happy with the progression).
Then, a few months back, Sue and I agreed to move advance top permanent, 24/7, lock-up - And I couldn't be happier.

 

I have been locked in chastity by my wife for 4 years. I have caged orgasms three to four times years, I have forgotten how to have a full orgasm uncaged and intercourse

 

Only ruined in my cage