Locker Room Etiquette

I admire your confidence and agree with your opinion. Anyone who has a problem in this day and age is the problem.

Regarding the PA piercing a friend we see occasionally when watching hockey games casually mentioned getting a PA recently. I was aware of them but not knowledgeable about how they affect sex. He and his wife seem like a very loving couple so I have been tempted to ask more about when I see him or them alone sometime.

 

I try to be discreet as possible. I’ll usually shower at home or in my hotel room. I have used maybe 10 gym showers wearing it. I’ll drop my cloths cover it with a towel and use the shower. Anyone going out of their way to see it when I am being discreet is weirder than me… lol

 

I've been changing in the gym locker room while caged for 5 or 6 years and I just turn my back when fully naked

But I want to start wearing panties and I am anxious about being see in those. Any advice?

 

Wear them under your boxers.

 

I wasnt graced with a huge shower so I have always been fairy discrete in locker rooms, its not very hard as others have said just turn away pants on the second the towel is removed etc not sure why people need to stand there and show it all off to every one I think its a little disrespectful to others.

 

Yes, but i still need to completely disrobe to take a shower so that wouldn't help

 

Wear solid colors like black, navy blue, maroon or white.

 

2 suggestions:
1. Don't. You shouldn't force you kink on others.
or
2. Just admit you want the rush of being seen in panties.

 

It will be 1 for sure.

 

I feel empathy for our transgender brothers and sisters who have to deal with the bathroom police

 

I agree with a lot of what you say, but I also believe a few things differently that makes me conclude differently than you.

It is certainly anyone's choice to adopt wearing a sex toy as a life decision and I get that becomes part of you. But you seem to acknowledge that even nudity in the locker room is specific to your old school generation and is on the way out. And it is only permitted in the context of benign human nudity. Not in any sexual capacity. If the cage is used in a sexual capacity, it is not an issue of the mere human form. It's a sex toy being thrust on others.

So with that perspective, I can really conclude that the ease of not getting naked (even though slightly more uncomfortable for you perhaps) is secondary to the importance of other people who are trying to use the locker room without the presence of sex toys and indeed, sex toys on genitalia being used as they are sexually intended to be used right in front of unwilling participants.

 

Are there people who really care? I mean, sure, I might care wearing my cage into the locker room, but I can't imagine someone else in the locker room would care. Think about it. Folks have provocative tatoos, folks have piercings, folks shave. If you're going to be horrified that someone else takes care of their junk differently then you do, then you are the one who should not go in the locker room.

Why are we even talking about this when we have a bunch of people who think a guy who thinks he's a girl can go in the womens locker room even if he still has his parts. A chasity cage is NOT a big deal.

 

A cage is a big deal to some. Its easy to think it's not when you're in one constantly but to the average Joe it is. It's common courtesy for others is all. No it's not jewelry btw, been in many jewelry stores never seen a chasity cage by the diamond necklaces.